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I consider people saying now that I have to accept Eric's abuse or he'll leave me, a new form of abuse. And as I said, I'm ending all forms of abuse in my life, all of them. Ending them, fighting them and exposing them. And this has taken a troubling new turn. I have to accept the abuse or I will be severely penalized. I am ending and exposing...

You know like I've already told people, I won't let anyone put me in even an old age home ever now that I know. Know that I will lose all access to the outside world, know that I'll be horribly neglected, know that I will be endangered and threatened as a gay man with Cerebral Palsy, etc. So I can't afford to lose a foot or limb to neuropathy,...

This is taking a frightening new turn. Now I'm back at those dangerous levels of Olanzapine. But now my doctors could never even warn me. I might be suffering kidney failure according to that one doctor. And I have weird symptoms of a UTI. Or maybe it's kidney failure. I don't know because I'm not a doctor. I have to trust the opinion of the...

So just to summarize where things stand now. Eric wants to leave me a legal guardian and allow me to fend for myself. Even though I have no friends or family, even though the trust was never enough to live on let alone enough to cover all the expensive stuff I'll need now with all the damage secretly done to me, even though I'll end up homeless...

Are we at a time in the universe where everyone knows at least someone who has 'transitioned' by gender presentation? In my earlier years of learning of this process, we were taught the terms, pre-op, post-op, and no-op. Some transitioning persons went through one or a combination of them.