Turning Fantasy To Reality - How Likely?

So a lot of people coming on here looking for help and advice, because they are having new feelings are wanting to try new things. I've only had sex with women, am not attracted to men on the street, and I'm in my 40s so I'm old enough that if I was truly homosexually oriented, I think that would have come out by now. However I am attracted to the taboo, and kinky stuff sometimes. I have had some gay fantasies. With porn and the internet it's easy to explore these things. I've gone as far as to have a few online chats, which is a lot easier to find men to this with. Well I've been chatting with one guy and it quickly turned into how much he wants to suck me and have me fuck his ass. He dresses up in his wife's panties and bra and sends me pics. He wants me to dominate him and we've had erotic chats in detail where I've stroked myself off. In other words, he's a bottom and I'm a top. I've gotten really turned on by the scenario: he has a smooth ass in his wife's panties, he's married and therefore safe and discreet (presumably), and he wants me to use both his holes. I don't know how gay this is for me, I'm thinking it's more about have some hot naughty sex with a guy who wants to dress and act like a woman.

He says he doesn't have a lot of time and this is just fantasy release for him. He hasn't been asking to meet though he told me he has sucked a couple cocks over the past 5 years. I have never done anything with another man and I probably should just keep this in the fantasy realm myself. When I'm not in mood online I kinda laugh about it and think to myself - jesus forget that, what's my problem. I don't know if I'd get up my nerve to do it for real, and if I did would I in reality be like "hell no, I don't want this, I'm not going through with this". But we've been chatting a lot and I've started looking at "sissy porn" and getting turned on.

Anybody been in the situation and followed through or not? Anybody had a secret guy on the side they met to fuck occasionally?

 

Have a look at this forum post...

Heteroflexual: Men who are not gay or bi, but have penis fascinations.

http://www.hipforums.com/forum/topic/468056-heteroflexual-men-who-are-not-gay-or-bi-but-have-penis-fascinations/?view=getnewpost

 

Only you can decide if this is what you really want to do in real life or keep it in the realm of fantasy.

I would not worry too much about you now turning gay or anything. Quite a few str8 guys have discovered their bi side during the course of their adulthood. The fact that it is pretty easy to hook up with another like minded or compatible dude is helping, too. A trigger for many straight guys was the fact that they were not getting their release with their GFs and wives, or that after a while the usual sex became stale. So, they slipped into what is known as situational homosexuality.

Life is about trying new things, and exploring new options within reason. When all is said and done, people usually regret the things they did not do.

KD

 

why do you have to box it in as being gay,bi or heterosexual.....why not just accept what turns you on and not over think it and as a famous sports brand would have said "just do it"