Heteroflexual: Men Who Are Not Gay Or Bi, But Have Penis Fascinations.

There may be a phenomenon in the human sexuality world that has yet to be uncovered where heterosexual (straight) men have practically no attraction to other men what so ever... but many do have a sexual penis fascination.

We know that Heterosexual men are (only) "attracted" to women, Homosexual men are (only) "attracted" to men and Bisexual men are "attracted" to both men and women. But there is a huge number of men around the world who wander slightly into the grey area between Heterosexual (straight) and Bisexual. This grey area has somewhat recently been established as Heteroflexable or Heteroflexual.

"Heteroflexual" men are very strongly attracted to "women (only)", but are also seemingly sexually stimulated by the male penis. Although Heteroflexual men mostly have NO attraction to the full male body, NO desire for any hugging or kissing another male, and NO desire for any emotional connection or relationship with another male, they do fantasize about male masturbation,giving penis handjobs, possible blowjobs and anal penatration including penis ejaculation. Of course this would appear gay or bi to most people, but to the Heteroflexual man, "women" are always the strongest attraction... NOT men! But there is a sexual stimulation from the male penis area for what ever reason.

Porn site studies have successfully proven that more than 70% of straight men searching straight porn sites also search male masturbation and shemale porn. And take note that you will never find shemale porn on gay porn sites because gay men do not like shemale porn at all for obvious reasons. So what does that conclude? Do you consider yourself a straight male with absolutely NO attraction to men that you see throughout the day, but find yourself searching for penis porn online when straight porn stimulation begins to wear off a bit?

Reply to this post if you do NOT feel gay or bisexual at all, but may in fact qualify for being Heteroflexual. Let's see if this phenomenon really exists.

 

Humans come as they are. If you are interested in vagina but totally do not care for the boobs, the chances are that you'll have to take the boobs, too.

Conversely, if you are interested in other dudes' cocks, logic dictates that you'll have to take them as they come, attached to men.

I cannot think of any man I have ever met who does not have his preferences. Quite a few guys are only interested in dating girls with big boobs. She may have the nicest vagina there is but if the boobs are not of the right size, the guy loses interest. Quite a few gay men are known to be size queens. Unless the guy they are dating is handsomely endowed, they are out of it. I doubt that this will change anytime soon.

So, if you are sexually attracted by other dudes' cocks, go for them.

Do not waste time imaging that this anything new, undiscovered, etc. It has been around for a very long time now.

KD

 

Those are some very valid points KD that certainly cannot be disputed.

But the purpose for creating this discussion topic was not intended to "analyze", "figure out", or even "categorize" men who have these feelings, but rather for men to reveal that there are others out there who do share (and can relate) to these same feelings of being completely attracted to women, but fantasize about penis.

Analyzing and/or labeling will only add to the confusion about these feelings which was not the intention of this discussion topic.

There is no secret that this topic is dealing with mild bisexuality, so that has already been established.

 

I bet it's pretty much every male that's ever been born. I once read that 67% of men have jerked off while fantasizing about gay sex before. If 67% will admit it, most likely 100% have done it. Gay straight and bi are just labels. Fuck labels. Sex feels good. Straight or gay. Bottom or top. Done both gay and straight myself. Ultimately chose straight but only because I wanted the wife and kids in the suburbs with the picket fence and a dog. And some respectability in the community (deep south). But I had my fun.

 

I'm 42 and married. I love women. I love their pussy and I love big tits. My wife is the love of my life. Built like a brick shithouse. I still have a fascination with a hard cock. I get hard just thinking about it. I like anal play. I love a big toy in my ass.

 

Great example flajoh! Thanks for your comment.

 

lolz.

 

I think I more closely fit this than bisexual. I have a mild interest in taking a hard cock in my ass. I never have, not sure I will, but under the right circumstances I can see myself bending over for a guy. I'd love to give a guy a handjob, even take a facial. Given an opportunity, I would most definitely suck dick, and swallow.

Make out with a male? No thanks. Caress, cuddle, kiss a dude? Meh. Maybe in the heat of the moment, I might go for it, but it's the penis that is the attraction. A fat one for sucking, but it would be a thinner one for my ass.

 

you cant go around making up names for sucking dick because you aren't prepared to admit to dick loving.....go ahead and placate yourself for your own sanity butt I believe you are bisexual at least........

its a joke you are saying you aren't attracted to only the penis part lol

this is the worst ''i'm not gay'' thread ever

 

I'm with rolling on this one.

I like gay sex but can we not call it gay is pretty much what this sounds like to me. I do think there are a hell of a lot more bi guys out there that won't really admit to being bi Than we thought though.

 

Oh, I already lol'd at this.

 

Seeing my girlfriend enjoying sucking my cock, (she really loves doing that) definitely makes me wish I was doing what she is doing...Im not gay, ive been propositioned by gays, and flirted with by gays, I briefly kissed a male friend at a party once just to shock my other mates, it wasn't at all pleasant, and I never did it again... But then again I didn't do it for sexual reasons... It was college days, and we were all art students being crazy wild dudes (not, in actual fact). But watching my gf sucking me looks nice to do... If I ever get into a mfm threesome I think I would suck his cock.... But I wouldn't kiss him.... I have a couple of very close male friends who I have very affectionate relationships with, and the brotherly love feels so caring it sometimes feels not far from the love with my girlfriend.... But kissing...fucking with a man.... Er.... No ! It doesn't float my boat..... But if I could get away with sucking a cock one day, I think I would enjoy it....sensual rather than bi sexual or gay, that's my truth on it.

 

At the end of the day they're not exactly straight thoughts or anything. You're into some gay shit, man. That's all.

 

Irminsul... I respect your opinion...it's not mine, but I we all have our views.

 

Yeah but you gotta admitt, my initial thought process on replies is pretty darn hilarious. No?

 

So that phenomenon yet to be magically discovered is that there are a whole bunch of guys out there, not too fussed as to who or what.sucks their pee pee

Seriously dude, its.been like that since the dawn of time

 

I have to agree with ggib111... "Sex feels good" regardless of the labels.

Something as simple as a guy using an anal plug can be considered gay by many, although there is no other man involved. They then "assume" that they're gay because he likes things in his ass.

Even those "straight" guys who visit topics like this, to call others gay, have the exact same issue. Why would straight guys who judge others as being gay even venture into these types of topics? Many of them contradict themselves by visiting these discussions in the first place. Penis talk or men's interest in penis must spark some type of interest with them also in my opinion.

Again only my opinion.

 

Every man alive is attracted to his own penis.
Every male on the planet has whacked off while admiring it, viewing himself in the mirror while jerking etc.
We all do it.
Therefore it is not that big of a leap to be attracted to another penis. Trouble is, it is attached to a man. Something we are not attracted to.
But put that penis on a convincing tranny - hold on - now we have something.
Put it on a girly boy (twink) and ok...some interest...
Go to any cam site..any of them..it is chock full of men camming themselves jerking off...and a bus load of other guys watching while they are also camming.
On porn sites, gay porn is not that popular...tranny sex is a distant 2nd to female porn, but very popular. Next to that is masterbation vids.
Sexual attraction is not absolute, it is fluid and evolves.
It is what it is.

 

Well put iamjustme. I totally agree with that also... minus the "girly boy (twink)" part.

Men also relate to the penis well because men understand exactly what the penis likes and needs.

The boobs, pussy, penis, mouth, hands and ass all have their sexual benefits and rewards, and I personally believe that most "strait" men would accept or consider other penis as sexual stimulation in certain situations if it was "not" attached to another man. That is the point that is trying to be made here.

Example: If some people were really born as a "true" transexual (non-man) gender with a full sized fully functional penis. Especially if this gender had both a fully functional pussy and a penis, but all female features.

Of course that is a fantasy gender, but just try to imagine the reality of how popular that gender would be among "straight" men? Women would have some serious competition to deal with.

 

Uh...that is not a fantasy gender. It is called hermaphrodite. It is a rare condition, many time the "penis" is a greatly enlarged clit. But some have a fully functioning penis and a vagina..... http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Leh7ARgA8Pc/Too4NZ06TwI/AAAAAAAAA2o/grb-sEyo1SA/s1600/1709982750.jpg