Personal Questions About Female Ejaculation and Anal Sex

I am a 21 year old female. About 3 weeks ago, I was having sex with my boyfriend, and I think I "squirted". How do I know if it wasn't urine? And it didn't feel like an orgasm I'd get vaginally or clitorally.
Also, I have a question about anal sex. I do like anal sex, and my boyfriend is a little grossed out about it. Anyways, whenever we do have anal sex, I get this frustrating feeling in my vaginal area. I'm not sure if it's my clit, vagina, or "g-spot". I feel like I'm going to orgasm, but I never do. If I have a toy in my butt while having sex, I usually have an intense orgasm.

Can someone explain some of this stuff?

Thanks in advance!
:mickey:

 

maybe change the position/angle of penetration for your guy will help you come?

when you have a toy in you are controlling it so everything goes your way - perhaps a little mental shift concentrating on how you arent in control and yet your lover is giving you all this pleasure might help defocus from getting exactly the motions you need...

might also help to stimulate your clit til you learn how to get him to give you an anal-only orgasm...

 

From my experience the smell and taste from pee and ejaculate is different, both have pretty strong odors but different nonetheless, also the squirt is never yellow colored like pee but clear like water. If you're afraid of peeing then just make sure to empty your bladder before having sex, if it's a real squirting orgasm you're still going to get the same feeling when you're about to come (like you feel you're going to pee). I'll have to add, as strange as it may sound both peeing and squirting can happen at the same time (from my experience), so is always best to empty your bladder to avoid causing any discomfort to your partner (if any, because I'm personally fine with it, shit happens...).

Tip: You can do it on the shower so is really easy to clean afterwards.

And yes, the squirting orgasm is very different, is more like what a man feels when he has an orgasm.

In regards to what you said about anal sex, well first you have to take into account that the anus has lots nerve endings and is actually a very good source of sexual pleasure (unlike many people think) plus the anus is just below the g-spot, so you get some extra indirect stimulation of the g-spot from the anal stimulation (hence your so intense orgasms with the toy). I'm not very experienced in the back door department, but I'm guessing that with time you'll learn to cum from your anal intercourse just like regular intercourse (heck you might even squirt from anal sex).

If you would like to know a bit more about squirting check out my post:
http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=448426

 

I'm a little more pragmatic.

Did you enjoy it?
Did you feel fantastic?
Did your boyfriend enjoy it?
Did your b/f go, "eeew" and instantly want to be sick?

If you answered yes to the first 3 and no to the 4th .... what are you worrying about??
Just keep doing what feels great and don't worry about insignificant details.

and IMHO it sounds like you "squirted" - but again don't be too analytic about the fluid purity ...... just enjoy it!