I have sucked some me who really liked what I was doing and would hold off cumming until they could not cum, no matter what we did. Bummer for both of us. Relax, enjoy the blowjob and when you feel like cumming, let it fly. You and your cock sucker will both enjoy it more.
You are so right. I love it when he just releases without announcement (I can tell anyway) so I can play with his load...slurping it up and down the length of his shaft getting his full taste.
Hardly ever from a pure sucking standpoint, I've only had two women get me off this way. If she using her hand or a toy is added just depends on how horny I am and how good she is. Didn't really answer the question huh...…..
I can make him last as long as I want him to, I can also make him cum as quickly as I want him to. When I am sucking his dick I may be the one on my knees but I am also the one in control. I talked about it a bit in this post, 8th comment on the page.
My thought is, what's the hurry? I'll lay there and enjoy it as long as she lets me, keeping me close to the edge. She'll decide when the time is right mostly.
I agree with MoonGodess post #107. When any woman is giving her guy a bj, she's IN CONTROL. He'll sing opera - or try to - if she wants him to. I'll never understand ladies who think it's a demeaning thing to do.
Depends on the woman and the blowjob. Throw in stroking, ball play, ass fingering, rimjob and dirty talk. I can last about 10-15 minutes. Straight blowy I won’t cum. They have to work for it. I’ve had some bad ones. As greedy as that sounds. I’ve had to pull it out of their mouth and just jerk off onto their face or tits.
Depends on the moment. Sometimes i can go 20 - 30 minutes, sometimes it only takes me a few. If I'm super horny and my wife is really into it, she can get me to cum really quick. Other times I like her to take it easy and prolong the experience.
Technique and her enthusiasm is everything! If she knows what she's doing, able to read my signals as to how much I enjoy her varied techniques, and she is clearly enjoying and turned on by what she is doing to me; it will take no time at all. 5-10 minutes. Now if she slides her finger in my ass and massage my prostate while she is sucking. It's all over. ;-)
Unless it was used as foreplay in which the intention was not for him to get off anyway, I don't think I have ever given head that didn't result in an orgasm....ever. There were however, a few times when I was only trying to use it as foreplay or to add a bit of interest while switching positions and he couldn't help but cum.
I'm not really sure. I've cum from everything else. I've been close, but I guess the women who've blown me haven't had that rhythm down.
Maybe see if they can get you real turned on with a lot of teasing first before they take you in their mouth. It fascinates and also saddens me that there are so many women who don't know how to give good head. My husband had a friend that I played match maker with and hooked him up with one of my friends. He told my husband that he was amazed because it was the first time he had gotten a blow job without teeth hitting his cock. Can you imagine? Ouch!
As was said above, it depends on the provider...well, and also how long it has been since I have cum. I have gone for up to a half hour and called it quits when the sucker pinched my cockhead between the molars for the last time. On the up side I have wanted to cum in just a few short minutes.