I've always outlasted every female I've been with. I've been extremely close, to the point those initial tingles start. Unfortunately, their neck doesn't make it long enough. Sexual bucket list: Orgasm during a blow job! (Hand job combination doesn't count in my book).
Usually, as long as I selfishly want to enjoy it.....unless she's really on a mission .... then it's maybe five minutes. I like to make it last maybe ten or fifteen minutes, taking it close and backing off a few times, like edging. With me it's 50% trying to cum, and 50% trying not to...yet.
Since my wife does not want me to blow a load into her mouth, I only let her suck my cock for a couple of minutes, at most. She had a bad experience with a forced blow job in college, which is why she doesn't like having cum in her mouth.
You've never been able to come with a blow job? Something tells me she's doing it wrong. How many different people have given you head?
Somewhere between 20-25 different women. And don't get me wrong, it feels amazing!! especially good deepthroat. At the end my abs are almost locking up from jerking and twitching so much. And my mind is definitely into it. I'm going to try something like a vibrating butt plug while getting one. Maybe that little extra action on my prostate will help.
I can go off like a volcano just from a BJ. Part of the turn on - for me - is that she's purposely focusing on giving me intense pleasure. I love it when a woman takes her time to enjoy her teasing, kind of wickedly. I get nothing from the rapid, "woodpecker" motions seen in some porn vids. Too hard on the ladies' necks!!! Slow and sensual is better - for her enjoyment and mine. I return the favor on her for at least an hour and closer to 2 hours. I enjoy MY time licking too !!!
Start with a finger, it might be enough. My husband isn't into butt play but every now and then, when he is taking too long, my finger starts to get closer to his asshole, just being close usually does the trick. Teasing can certainly work wonders, I bet my husband once that I could get him off with a BJ in under 30 seconds. I teased the hell out of him without ever touching his shaft, kissing and licking his hips, stomach, thighs and balls, when my mouth finally touched his penis, it only took 3 long, deep strokes and he was done... and well under the 30 second mark. And this was before I found my finger trick.
Definitely going to give that a try! Mentally, I would be turned on much more by her finger than a toy. Thanks Moon
