Allow Her To Experience Another..

We're in our late 20's and my wife of 9 years had only ever fucked me before getting married. We have a great sex life but now I find myself feeling like I really want her to experience another man inside her. I'd like to have a threesome but if she wanted to fuck someone privately I'd be totally ok with it as long as I met the guy first and could sit outside and listen. The whole idea has thrilled me for a while. She has made some comments about swingers as a joke in the past but I think she might have curiosity deep down. I don't want to freak her out so I haven't said anything. She's a beautiful fit woman that wouldn't have any problems attracting another man.

 

Your situation is almost exactly like mine was when my wife and I were young. Here's how I persuaded her to participate in an MFM threesome:

https://www.hipforums.com/forum/blog/99/entry-113-my-first-and-only-threesome/

 

I'd be happy if it worked out like it did for you. I know she'd happy once she got over the initial shock of what was going on. She deserves to get to expand her sexuality with someone other than the first person.

 

The main thing is finding the right guy. We never really had a plan. But another couple helped us.

 

My wife did experience several other guys in college when she and I were dating. After 10 years of marriage and lots of guys flirting with her, some even openly asking her for sex, we discussed letting her experience another man if she wanted to. It took a while, but once we decided it could be done without harming our marriage, she did it with a couple of other men. Threesomes were not an option. That satisfied her, and she has never indicated a desire to do it again.

 

I really want to ask her about it I'm just scared about how she's gonna react. That fact that I'm ok about letting her fuck another guy is a big new bit of info for her to swallow. Maybe the next time we're fucking and she's really horny I'll introduce the subject and see how it goes.

 

hmmm, maybe you will, maybe you will......

 

Definitely find a way to encourage her to do this. Experiencing different men and cocks and sexual partners is so important for fulfilling your sexual potential and really owning your sexuality. Chances are she'll be more open to new experiences and more sexual too, so plenty in it for you too

 

So last night during some foreplay I brought up the topic to the wife and we had an interesting discussion. Initially she was a little resistant to the idea due to the fact that she couldn't get over me fucking another girl. However she didn't resist the part about her getting fucked. I'm satisfied sexually with her so it doesn't really bother me about not having another woman. We dropped the subject and continued the conversation in the morning and she said she watched some cuckold porn online and would be willing to participate in that if we could find the right guy. This kind of shocked me because I had no idea she even knows what that is?!

 

Wow, that was quick! It took me the better part of a month between the time I first brought up the topic until my wife finally decided that she was interested in trying it out. As jimandjan said, finding the right guy is paramount. Personally, I still think that a close male friend who you and your wife have both known (and trust) for a long time (years preferably) is the best place to start.

 

I don't think you should rush into this. For us my wife (gf at the time) talked about it, but it took a long time to make it happen. It shouldn't be hard to find another man. Like buzzgunner said they had a friend, My wife ruled out friends and co-workers. At the time she took night classes, but never really, found anyone interesting. Through mutual friends, we meet a couple who was into it. They invited us to a party. We decided to go, and check things out. That's how things started for us. Good luck, and keep us up dated.

 

What kind of a ''friend'' sleeps with your spouse? I guess I don't get that part.

 

The kind you trust implicitly and enjoy doing everything with.

Honestly, there were times when, after several hours of fucking, the three of us would sit around on the living room carpet, still completely naked, and play board games! Or the three of us would just sit (w/o getting dressed) and talk. I vividly remember one evening, after the three of us were finished (mostly) having sex, our friend and my wife were laying on one of our two living room couches, spooning. He was behind her and was still hard enough for her to reach down and push his cock back inside her. Instead of starting to fuck again, they just laid there like that, with him reaching around her and massaging her breasts while I sat on the other couch, and the three of us proceeded to have a lively conversation about the Dungeons & Dragons game that we were in twice a month! If I recall, he stayed hard enough to remain inside my wife for almost half an hour, before eventually going limp and sliding out. (He could maintain a fairly solid erection after cumming, on a pretty regular basis, to my constant envy!)

During the summer, the three of us would go skinny dipping at a spot in the Cascades that no one apparently knew about. We'd almost always spend time sun bathing on those trips. Sometimes we fucked and sometimes we didn't. There was no pressure either way. That's how comfortable it was to be with him.

 

A couple of ours that we have been friends with for a long time and regularly spend time with has been our interest in trying this out with. She’s an attractive women and I know my wife finds him attractive. We’ve mentioned it to them before about our interest and they said they also had talked about it in the past but didn’t ever actually do anything. So I think if we are gonna do this I think it’ll most likely be with them.

 

This is a lot like how we started. We were very young, hubby mentioned this and I had secretly thought about it. We tried a couple of guys that we knew ,but none got the job done. Then one night after having a cookout hubby was pretty wasted and went to bed. He told me to enjoy myself. A friend stayed to help me clean up! Mmmmmmmm!

 

She needs to have another man inside her. She doesn't understand how cock really feels. Fuck her brains out.

 

What kind of a ''friend'' sleeps with your spouse? I guess I don't get that part.

Deidre,

It's a unique situation, that's for sure. Here's something I posted today that kind of addresses your question. There isn't a universal "right and wrong," in my experience. Just what you and your spouse (and your friend) are comfortable with. This one instance was agreeable to us, but I can say that in 8 years of marriage that's the only situation that made sense to us: https://www.hipforums.com/forum/topic/484048-anyone-else-share-wife-with-friend/

 

It's in bad taste.

THIS IS THE ULTIMATE! THIS IS EPIC BEYOND WORDS and you're the trolls exchanging each other's wenches for favors. WTF that's what you want to be in this life? Protect your woman to the death you fool! You don't let her sleep with another man. You withstand the winds of Hell so that she doesn't catch a breeze.

 

I walked him to his truck and he fucked me on his front seat! We were like kids in high school! Mmmmmm!! So sweet!

 

Tonight we have our friends couple coming over to have dinner with us and hang out. We agreed to be open with each other if any type of connection is felt and see how it goes. The other guy and myself are totally cool and already agreed we’re open to full swap if it works out that way. Let you guys know how it goes.