I've had really good sex where the neither of us came. It was just slow and tender, like a good Elvis love song. I can watch porn like that.
that can be okay - if neither "finish" but imo, while it isn't the main reason to make love, it is generally the main reason to have sex. if all you want is a physical manifestation of the existing intimacy, thats cool. but if one of you gets off, both should - and since women are generally (GENERALLY) more easy to get off multiple times, she should always at least equal the number of orgasms the man gets, if not exceed it. personally i'm a big fan of giving oral sex, and prefer to get her off at least once before we even start to consider me.
I totally get you. Nothing gets me off more than helping somebody else get off. If the girl isn't dripping like mad before and after a really passionate fuck, then it isn't nearly as good. There is nothing like a genuine moan of delight as well. Sorry if I sound crude. At the same time, yeah, sometimes I just want the physical intimacy. Being in the arms of a naked woman is the safest place in the world.
most porn of ive seen is bang bang bang. just straight pounding with no eye contact, caressing, or any of the other intimate things that makes making love so fantastic. theres nothing hotter than two people in love having sex
soft porn doesn't gross me out so much but it doesn't turn me on either. i'm not sure what it is that makes me so grossed out really, it just toggles my squeamishness
Most porn bores me. I've seen all their ideas a thousand times. After all these years and all the complaints from so many people, the plots and the acting still suck.
It may have just been one of those things that was labeled as taboo for you and now you just have that in the back of your mind. Some people have that same issue with masturbation and ect. After we are told not to like something, or something is bad so much... we believe it. It's what makes society what it is today... hence the issues with gay marriage, interracial dating, sex fetishes, and ect.
Nah, she's not into it, and I usually find it distracting. I like going to the strip club with her, so it's pretty much the same thing. I definably wouldn't go by myself, because I don't like strippers.