Your handjob experience

Hmmm... That sure is interesting. I mean, you've never had any complaints about the way you do or anything, have ya? It's like, I don't think being too gentle is necessarily a bad thing, and he'd tell you if you're being too rough.

It's like masturbating. You know how you like to be touched because that may be how you touch yourself, and you may give the guy some instructions so that he could get it right. You might even prefer being licked over manual stimulation, but that aside, if you like your partner to touch you there with his hands, chances are he'll have to learn how to touch YOU specifically, for each woman likes to be touched the certain ways.

We guys are no different, though, I'd say we tend to be a little easier to please. See, you may have some advantage there, lol. It all comes down to how well you can communicate with your partner, is what I think.

But hey, I'm not saying anything against your preferring to give oral instead, so ya know....

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Masturbation IS awesome. And it is also totally right that mutual masturbation doesn't have to lead to actual intercourse. Many people jump to the conclusions that one thing nearly always have to lead to another.

I remember having a big debate at a different forum way back when about mutual masturbation between certain groups of people whom the actual intercourse was not an option for. The people I was speaking to used this flawed "rationalization" that mutual masturbation would always lead to more intimate things.

That was frustrating trying to get my point across to those people, but I guess I shouldn't have blown the thread into a war-zone by going into a total "combat-mode" myself, if you will. LOL

 

Mutual Masturbation is when you both are in the same room masturbating. You get turned on by your partner masturbating. Otherwise it is double digital... heh...