You won't believe what happened to me!

Discussion in 'Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans, etc.' started by Hip-Hoplover1, Sep 6, 2006.

  1. amp7325

    amp7325 Visitor

    Woah. You lucky man.

    I'm not sure if it'd be the right thing to ask quite yet. He might not know if he loves you or not and be thrown off-guard, and that might shake up the relationship. Sometimes it takes time for someone to truly realize that they love someone. And sometimes it happens instantly. I wouldn't want to risk anything right now, since things seem to be going quite swimmingly for you. :p
     
  2. Hip-Hoplover1

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    He got out of the shower and said he can stay with me all night because his parents are out of town and all he has to do is call them on his cell phone. Anyway, he's upstairs in my room watching an episode of Smallville on the WB. I wanna talk to him. Get to know him. And I'd like to pick up on how much he cares for me. What do you guys think I should say to him?
     
  3. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    How about you start off with saying to him that you REALLY care about him..use the word CARE and start from there..be slow about bringing in the love word because he appeared in the beginning to be comfortable just saying he cared...and you dont want him to run away !!!!!!!!!
     
  4. Hip-Hoplover1

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    Alright I'll tell him that. He's in my kitchen right now making me breakfast. My parents got up early and left so that means he doesn't have to sneak out. Do you guys have any idea how wonderful it was to wake up with him still with me in my bed? I woke up in his arms and he looked so adorable sleeping!
     
  5. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    You dont know how many people envy you right now....I remember the magic verry well....sometimes it only comes around maybe once or twice in a lifetime..enjoy it while its here !!!!!
     
  6. Hip-Hoplover1

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    The problem is Garrett's girlfriend. Part of me feels sorry for her for what I am doing and the other part of me despises her for making me have to share Garrett. I wanna give Garrett time, but today at school when I saw him walking around holding hands with her, it drove me up the wall! I wanted to scream! I don't want to be some little slut. I don't know what to do, and its really bothering me!
     
  7. drumminmama

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    Garrett's the slut, baby.
    He'll decide what he needs to do to be true to himself.
    Enjoy the fling and try not to over invest. Erzebet is right that it is magical, but the breakup of overinvested people makes them into clinging vine.
    But he chose to spend the night with YOU and not the girlfriend. That's something.
     
  8. Hip-Hoplover1

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    He came over again tonight. Gave me a massage, finger fucked me for about an hour, he basically worked my body until I was num and begging him to make love to me and let me cum, he wouldn't make love to me or let me cum until it came to the point where I couldn't take it anymore and I was screaming at him to do it, then he whispered in my ear, "Okay, your ready." Then he finally did it and when he cummed inside of me it felt so wonderful. It felt so warm and wet, it made me cum at the same time. Afterwards he took the sheets from my bed and went out into the main room and turned on the air conditioner and held the sheets up to it. Then he came back and it felt so good when he put those crisp and cool sheets over me. He told me he did that so that I would be more comfortable. After that I went to sleep for a little while and when I woke up he sat down and fed me ice cream. He just left a few minutes ago. But here's the kicker, before he left he turned to me quickly and said, "I think I might be in love with you." Then he kissed me on the cheek and left without another word. What do you guys think?
     
  9. amp7325

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    I think it's amazing.
     
  10. TreeFiddy

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    Do talk to him about the whole girlfriend thing, though...that is if you really want to pursue an full-out relationship with him, and if he does love you than you should at least get it straight about how he feels about his "girlfriend".
     
  11. Night_Owl49

    Night_Owl49 Since 2006

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    I think it's fucking hot. I wish this shit would happen to me.

    Except I would want to be delivering the pleasure. [​IMG]
     
  12. erzebet1961

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    OK....NOW'S the time to bring up the girlfriend....good luck !!!!
     
  13. Hip-Hoplover1

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    I don't really know how to bring up the topic. What do you guys think I should say?
     
  14. erzebet1961

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    Tell him you need to know where his girlfriend fits into his life right now if his feelings for you are as he says they are !!!!
     
  15. Hip-Hoplover1

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    Good advice! All right he's coming over for dinner right now. My parents don't know anything, but they will think he is just a friend and their leaving right after dinner so then I will talk to him. I'm also going to tell him how much I love him. I'll tell you how it goes.
     
  16. erzebet1961

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    Enjoy !!!
     
  17. TreeFiddy

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    good luck to you
     
  18. Hip-Hoplover1

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    Okay, here's what happened. It took a little while to talk to him about his girlfriend because the first thing that I said was that I loved him, and as soon as I said that he jumped on me. Then after about a half an hour of sex we were lying on the floor and I started talking to him. I asked him what was the deal with his girlfriend? I asked where she fits in his life and whether or not he meant it when he said he loved me? He told me that he truly loved me and that he is gonna break it off with his girlfriend, but that he just needs time. He's gonna spend the night with me again. What do you guys think?
     
  19. Night_Owl49

    Night_Owl49 Since 2006

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    I may just be paranoid, but I'd keep my guard up. What I mean is, he could say he "needs times" months from now.
     
  20. amp7325

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    I agree. You should make sure he follows through with this, because otherwise she'll just get hurt even more in the long run. Something similar happened to me a couple years ago (with a girl, before I knew I was gay, and without the sex part of it). She was in love with one of my best friends, but somehow we were going out too, and I though I loved her, and when I found out after she broke up with me that she was with him all along, I was really hurt and offended and pissed.
     

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