You don't want to kiss your friend, but you will suck his cock

I know it seems odd that a man would rather suck another mans cock than kiss a man on the lips, but that is the case. When i first started playing around with men, kissing was a hard no. However i would be quite happy with his cock in my mouth, if his ass was clean I’d rim him too. But no kissing. After a while though i was starting to think i was maybe more than a bit bi, and i let a couple of guys kiss me and it felt good. They kissed me with such passion and urgency it just felt amazing. I have now done just about everything sexually possible with a man. I love it too.

 

I agree with you, for many of us kissing was a big no because the infatuation and desires were for that cock. I've had this conversation with my wife. She says, "You enjoy sucking his cock and taking his load in your mouth to swallow but you can't kiss him?", I don't get it? I've since gotten over that as well and have been open to kissing my regular man here of late.

 

It's great your wife encourages you and you enjoy it now! Many would get jealous or turned off by that one single extra level of pleasure and intimacy, despite encouraging oral or anal with a guy.
I still haven't crossed that threshold of desire yet. Unsure how much mental & cultural taboo is behind it, vs being wired hetero-romantic,vs not having a friend I'm into?

It doesn't help that at a hotel party many years ago, a gay guy with nasty yellow smoker's teeth & breath tried to force deep kiss me with no warning! I pushed him back, said no thanks, yet he kept persisting harder and more aggressively twice more, when I finally shoved his ass to the floor, and others jumped in to make him back off. I was not playing with the guy before either, just briefly talked to him standing up when he approached me, nor invited him to play with me.
I was actually stroking another guys cock when he approached me!
I gained a whole new appreciation of the hesitation women go through, having to literally fight this jerk off, and I was quite bigger than him in size!

 

If you are genuinely bi or pan, kissing anyone of any gender can feel really good if there is lots of mutual admiration taking place. I've kissed and been kissed in situations simply because we both felt turned on by a good interaction of some sort, and many of those situations did not involve sex.

Spontaneously kissing or being kissed with a nice and sensitive person is consistently a great thrill for me. There is a timeless moment that happens when boundaries dissolve and you merge. A really good kiss can deepen a relationship for a very long time, especially with someone who does not confuse love with possession,

 

Guys I get with like to kiss, it's part of the intimacy....it's Sex!!

 

I loved sucking my friend off. And did it as much as I could. I really wanted to kiss him and asked several but he always said no

 

Uhh he's into the wex not the intimacy.

I would do mutual oral but I don't want to kiss a guy because I don't really see them as attractive, but I would suck cock.

 

im actually the same. Guys are not attractive to me. Except their cock. But this guy was my “special friend “ for a few years. I was really curious about trying it.

 

I've only kissed women, sucking a cock is a sexual thing, kissing is an inter personal thing for me.

 

I sucked many cocks before I ever kissed a guy. A lot of guys seem to like kissing so I finally gave it a try. It’s different than kissing a woman. Rough beard rather than soft skin. But when you are both naked, hard cocks pressed against each others, kissing a man can be very erotic

 

I have no interest in kissing or cuddling, for me it's all about the sex, and being dominated.

 

I'm not attracted to a man in any way, therefore, I have no romantic interest in a man or desire to bond. But I love a dick. I like sucking dick and feeling a dick in my ass. Ideally, a feminine trans lady.

 

It’s funny how we evolve with time and a journey through our sexuality. Just a year ago it seemed I wasn’t crazy about kissing a guy, 5 years ago I wouldn’t ever consider letting a guy top me. Now all of it is both fun and intimate. I had never considered sexuality to be on such a continuum, but in my experience it very much has been.

 

I have no desire to be kissed or to kiss on the face. I've always thought that I was strange like that. Of course when it comes to men, I want no real affection like that. Although a nice rimming before the big bang is a nice way to make me more sensitive to what's next, lol. But absolutely no kissing on my face.

 

Kissing is such a weird thing for me. Most of the time I’ve been “curious” I thought absolutely NO kissing. I’m not exactly sure why but I’m guessing it’s because I’m not attracted to guys, makes it too gay, I’ll save that for women.
A few years ago I was watching gay porn (a guy laying on his back being topped) and I was about to cum they kissed and OMG did I orgasm hard. Mostly now I think it would be really hot to kiss as I bottomed but just making out doesn’t seem to do much for me. The one time I was really with a guy we only sucked each other and I was like what would it be like to kiss him and I had no desire to.

 

It's not like I've never kissed guys because I have but, yeah, I'd rather suck my friend's dick than to kiss him and that's because some guys are seriously lousy kissers. I've heard guys say that kissing is too intimate and a sentiment that surprised me because I'm not sure I understand how kissing is more intimate than having your boy's cock buried in your throat and he's pumping cum down the hatch but, well, guys feel that way about kissing.

 

I don't kiss. Not into it at all. The only person I have touched lips with is a friend of mine, and that's only to snowball my cum back to me. No making out...ever.