Yea This shit is pretty Pathetic but idk any more

Well, your post says 18 going on 19, yet your profile says 22. So red flag in character here. Firstly you need to be honest. Secondly, if you operate from a position of anger and hornyeness, the girls will pick up on that quickly. Third, a quick look at your profile tells others that you are into sex and violence. Although that is not healthy, it is a product of how we are programed. One only needs to glance at a football game to get a heads up of that: players bashing each other =violence, cheerleaders bouncing all around= sex.

Anyway.

I suggest finding an alternate and constructive past time. Getting into shape and eating healthy is a great launching point to feeling better, building the body, and self esteem. You are 18/19, therefore, you could easily reshape your body which, will in turn attract the ones you desire.

You also might consider looking to join a real group of like-minded people that participate in real activities.

PM me if you want anymore help. You will be fine.

 

I wish i could change my age, i made this account a long time ago when i was younger and more insecure, even forgot the stuff i had wrote on my profile, how did you come to the conclusion that i like violence just by looking at my profile? I would love to get into shape but it's not as easy as it sounds especially when time is limited.

 

Well, slideruler's comment got me curious so I had a look at your profile. You know what, Rekno, the guy's just being ignorant about football. Football is a rough sport, yes, but it's a sport, not promotion of violence. Cheerleading is also a sport. A very sexy sport, but it is also a very physically demanding sport. It certainly isn't merely for the sake of arousing the audience.

The age thing isn't necessarily a red flag either. I figured you had a reason to hide your real age, and seriously, I don't blame you. This world is FULL of people who discriminate others based on age. You might choose to set your profile so it won't show your age. I believe you can do so on the User Control Panel page.

But anyway, I don't think slideruler meant any harm. I DO see that his intentions were good.

 

dude, what i was saying... in a roundabout way. is that you're a total pussy. you have good qualities that you're not willing to put out there. you're afraid of the weaker sex. you have hang-ups left and right. you're really typical and uninteresting. insecure. i could go on and on.

what i was telling you is that you need to get out and do something interesting. do something dangerous. daring. do something passionate or awesome. get some real genuine life experience, not that bull shit day in and day out work grind. and then maybe youll have something to talk about.

you're so young but you fucking suck at life. when i was 18 i moved out of the house and lived in a tent in the city, partied all the time, and met the craziest people, smoked the dankest bud all day every day, made paintings, sold art, stole from grocery stores. i have some crazy stories to tell. then later i traveled to new mexico, to spain, to france, to italy, i stayed in new york right above a comedy club for two weeks. i went to caribbean day parade in brooklyn, had a love affair with a 40 year old broadway actress. i'm only 20 years old, but i put myself out there and i live on the edge. what i've got to show for it is a real fucking interesting life story, a lot of experience in how the world works.

see what im saying. go do things that are awesome. my story about selling drugs was about getting over my fears of rejection, but you really need some wicked drastic changes if you ever want to be awesome.

you could keep working endlessly at some dead end job, smoking weed all day and using that as your only way to relate. or go out there and do something no one else has done before. do anything for fucks sake. you sound so boring.

 

lol well fuck jee thx mmg

 

personally mmg, i would prefer not to live in a tent in the city, that sounds more the life of a person without a job or a house no offence, i can't just up and dissapear

 

don't take a jab at me, man. we're here to talk about you.

you keep on missing the point. did you get anything out of what i posted? are you even doing anything to change the reasons you posted? i believe you described it as pathetic... are you taking any actions? stepping out of your comfortable little box?


and lastly, i may have moved into a tent in the city. but then i also ran my own business(no i didn't work for any other schmuck), loved every second of it, saved some money, and got 5 years worth of experience in less than a year.

 

I don't think mmg meant that you should copy him and live in a tent city - simply go out of your comfort zone and live more adventurously.

 

i did not mean to take a shot at you mmg, but i try to think what i could do but can't really think of anything that i can do to step out of my "Box", i've done some crazy stuff in my life, some stuff im not even proud of that i would label under the same category as stealing from grocery stores if thats what you would describe as more adventurous, im not old enough to go to clubs and theres not alot that im into other than sports i don't even drink coffee so going out for coffee would be an unatural thing. Even when i am old enough to go to clubs i just don't see anything changing from the way i am now, i would probably be to shy to talk to any girls cause i don't really have anything to talk about and i kinda just freeze the fuck up and like i said even when i do talk to them i feel awkward and stupid from the begging of the conversation. I try to keep a positive attitude and take things from this thread and apply them but when it comes down to that moment when you walk in the lunch room and see all the tables have girls sitting at them and a couple look my way it all goes to shit and i feel like a fucking spectacle for some reason a point of ridicule almost and i fucking turn around and walk out and eat my lunch outside.