And in 10 years time the girls her age that saved themselves will be running around trying to find a guy to make babies with when all th good ones are taken. She'll have a couple more that will already be in grade school, she wont be as pyscho jealous cos she's already got the kids, and if you two ar still together she'll be up for a bit of wife swapping maybe, maye some experimental stuff like FMF. I know it seems like it blows now, but if you do the kid thing, you are better off doing it early. For both her sake and your sake