Would You Ever Have Sex On The First Date?

i would give a blowjob on the first date if I liked him.

 

there's no way no matter what that I would give head on the first date though it's definitley not as meaningful as sex but still I don't know it just seems wrong.

 

Some people view oral sex as a deeper and more personal thing than actual sex...

 

I have to agree, because you don't know where that man's cha cha has just been.

 

no and no....Im not a virgin anymore but I dont thik Ill do it again til I am married... sex is just too big of a thing for me to do with someone that could just end up hurting me again anyhow....
Oral sex..doubtful....
Confession: Although I have given oral a lot (just to one guy..not a lot of guy lol) Ive never recieved it...im not againt it..its just never hapenned..*sighs*

 

yes/yes

But most of the sex on the first dates turned into only short term relationships for the fact that they were usually only based on sex and there was nothin else there

 

yes and yes

same thing if that happens on the first date both of em are in it for that

mines was anal and a bj and i did b4 i lost it

 

Yes and Yes

 

I know that I do....I won't give head unless I'm in love...and as far as recieving, I never have...Mainly because I don't trust people enough to let them take that much control of the situation.
So yes, oral is more personal and more deep to me than normal penis/vagina intercourse

holly

 

Yes and yes. I love sex, what can I say? Sometimes one thing leads to another and in the moment it just feels right.

I don't think it's a bad thing. Each time i've gone out with the guy again. I've never had a one night stand...

If that makes me slut, well...I'll accept that! *laughs*

 

I would, and have. But not any time with any one.

Sometimes before the first date. It totally depends on who, when, why, and under what conditions. Actually old enough to know what I what I like, and what I want, and how. I don't recommend this philosophy for every one tho.

 

I would, I have. It's a bad idea, & I'm old enough to know better. I've gotten bugs, an std twice. I was with a woman who treated me bad enough to never care about s-e-x again. I still crave the closeness of a relationship & continue to be willing to settle for what I can get. Insanity is to continue doing the same things expecting different results.

 

hmm prolly not but who knows if the guy and I really get along and what not... who knows

 

BLACKIE WROTE:

This really happened to you?How she reacted? Was the date over? Did she payed for her dinner? Did you got laid? Tell the details...


It's all in the reflex... DETAILS!!!!

 

yes/and yes, if I'm dating someone that I already know.

 

I haven't, but I would.

 

for me it depends on the person

 

oh arent we all virtuous. I guess I would, who knows, depends how I was feeling at the time