Would you date a fat person?

I dont see why weight matters to some people. Not everysingle perosn in this world weighs 100 lbs and looks like a model. I used to be really really fat but then i lost weight and it sucks that people i used to like when i was fat like me now because im skinny. I think everyone should see people for who they are and not what they look like. I understand if you wouldnt want to date someone whose over 200lbs but sometimes some people dont even look like they weigh that much. All i know is that theres someone out their for everyone and when you meet that person wether there fat or not you'll know and be really happy.

 

does alittle bit overweight (ike10kg) count as fat? or by fat do you mean like almost obiese? or do you mean hazardously obese? i wouldnt date an obese person, but as i said personality is no.1

 

honestly i wouldn't, i apriciate the physical atraccion in a relationship

 

I personally like sorta chubby people... they are jolly, warm, and very good huggers

 

And we're soft so you can use us as a pillow when you're sleepy.

 

I never said it should be excluded, it just shouldn't be the basis for your decision.

 

My boyfriend is what some people consider to be 'fat' but i don't see it. To me he's just him and i love him just the way he is. I think he's incredibly sexy and wouldn't change anything about him.

Just because people are 'fat' doesn't mean it's because they're lazy, unhealthy or have no self respect. Some people are just born that way.
I eat way more that my boyfriend and i'm half the size of him.
You can't ridicule people and pass judgement over physical appearance alone.

 

I used to be fat. Not obese but fat.

I'm 6'1 used to weigh 205, one day I decided I don't like being fat it's not worth it. So I lost 60 pounds in 4-5 months. It was not really hard it just took determination, excercise, lots of cereal, and low fat meals. I gained back about 8 pounds now I'm in the low to mid 150's.

 

I am a large man at 6'4 and 265ibs. But I enjoy small women 5'3 skinny. That is my preference. Does this make me a hypocrite for not liking large women. I dont think so. that just happens to be what I am physically attracted to. now the dating thing. Yes I would date a large woman if there was a mental connection between, and a spiritual connection. But that applies with anyone. If she is a short skinny thing and I am physically attracted to her, and then she opens her mouth and she is the biggest idiot I have ever seen, I am done speaking to her.

oh, by the way. I am not unhealthy. I go to the gym 5 days a week, and I eat only healthy food. Such as lean meat, and greens.

 

i think imho peole in this thread have VERY large portion of PHAT opinions smarten up and get over it . We are friggin humans. You realize if joe blow was 6'9 and 1000 lb and the nicest guy you'd be missin out!! Being so self centresed ME ME ME ME ME only that person because is so ergh anyways

 

um...what?

 

Again, this thread is about people's preferences. So some people don't want to date people like us - well like you said, they're the ones missing out. So why stress about them when you know there are people who are willing to look beyond our appearances and our weight? And if some people are willing to judge our character based solely on our weight, well we don't have to like them anymore than they have to like us. They don't want to be our friend because we're fat? No problem! There are five or six billion other people on the planet who have the potential to be our friends, our dates, our lovers.

So chill, my friend. Life's too short to waste on people who don't want anything to do with us anyway.


Peace,

Musikero

 

depends

 

i guess

 

6'1" and you weigh 150? Holy shit dude. You need to eat a fucking sandwich. A strong wind would knock you down.

 

I agree. 150 pounds is too light for your height dude. That's my ideal weight (I'm slightly under 5'6"), not yours.

 

height vs weight doesnt take build into account. my bf weighs like 30 lbs less than me and hes about 5-6" taller than me. he has an uber skinny build and i have a rather large one (admittedly overweight on top of that, but anyway).

 

Fat chicks are Great. It is no problem as long as she has a pretty face. As far as sex goes, fat chicks are the best!!! they have soft mouths and give the best head EVER!!
They almost always swalllow (which is a must).

 

I dont give a (insert word here .....) how she looks, although looks may attract me but they sure aren't the main thing i'm looking for in a girl...

 

i honestly take care of what other people think about my bf. Well not that much, but it influences me. Maybe i will be ashamed of a fat person, but however i've never tried dating a fat boy.
But i've tried handsomne but stupid guys - I couldn't stand them for more than a month.