Would you date a fat person?

i don't care, just as long as they're squishy in all the right places.

i was blessed with the chubbiest cheeks ever. so, even at a size 5/6 people always refer to me as being chubby. it's ok though. i would much rather be chubby than thin.

 

I guess it would depend on your definition of fat. I don’t like girls that are too skinny but if a girl was encumbered by their weight, such as walking around the block would be out of the question, I think I would have to pass.

 

my husband is 280 and i dont' consider him fat at all. He is big but alot of it is in the upper body and i dont' me man boobs either. lol I also think confidence has alot to do with it also. I have met some guys that are big but they got attitude i like that.

 

We can't impose our thoughts on other people, but we certainly can express them.

And how am I supposed to enforce your "yes-or-no" rule? The forums are designed for discussion and debate. I can't just delete posts without a valid reason.

Your point being?

 

Hey...Hey...hey!!! Chill out, big man. It was no "rule", it was my thinking, u only said its a debate platform...n i never asked to delete any thread or somethin'. And, "the world is watching us" is just a remake of a dialogue from da game lord of the ring, "the eye is watching us". My PRECIOUS...

 

*Chuckles* sorry, I must have come across as hostile or something. I was just asking hypothetically, for the sake of discussion. Next time I'll remember to put emoticons.:&

No, you didn't ask to delete anything. Which is why I asked you how I am going to enforce a "rule" without deleting a post.

Okay now I get it. lol the only line I remember from that movie is "my precious".:&

 

C'mon now no sorry among friends! And yeah! U did sounded a bit hostile but, now everything, I guess, is clear, ain't it? B-)

 

eventhough i like chabby people a lot.....i think the greatly fat people would have difficulty keeping up with my hmm..physical demands..no ofence

 

no porkers or smokers for me

 

If you're on top doing most of the work, I don't think I'll have any problems. :tongue:

Seriously though you do have a point. I have lost about 10 kg (that's 22 pounds) since last year when I started really living a healthier lifestyle (better diet, exercise, and I quit smoking). My partner and I can really tell the difference between our lovemaking then and now.

 

Eh, I'm a bit overweight myself and am trying to change that.

No. Wouldn't date a overweight person. (and I am saying that as someone who is 15 lbs. overweight...)

 

Only 15 lbs. overweight? Man, you're lucky. I already lost about twenty-two, but I still need to lose twenty or so more.

 

NO ID rather drive a Voltswagen than try and fuck one...

 

I don't care about looks. I only care that whoever I date like me and I like him/her.

 

Personally I think theres different category's of Fat. Some people are fat, lazy, and do nothing but eat crap and junkfood all day, then theres fat people who still are energetic, like to have fun and just inherited it. Personally I am overweight (not a lot but enough) but I still love to always be doing something, going on vacation, going to a theme park, the beach, shopping, sports and so on and my weight doesn't stop me and personally I dont eat a lot and my whole family has a history of being overweight however most of my family has been sucessful in losing the weight with age. But you cant really say any fat person because everyone is different especially there personality and how fat they really are, which would probably make the difference for most. Are you 10 pounds overweight or 200. I would date a fat girl personally and I have in the past, but I look at the personality mostly because if you cant stand someone and there personality you cant ever expect to stay with them for any period of time, but you have to be attracted to them to otherwise your better off as friends. Thats my view but even though Im overweight (in my view) I am very tall and big built anyhow (Which is why I love football and have always been the star in it ) But once again its really a personal taste, but being harsh and placing everyone thats overweight or chubby into a gross category is a little harsh after all most of the world is at least a few pounds overweight.

 

fatter than myself?

[oh where oh where can you be]

 

it depends on how big they are, i mean at some point i think health should be more important than relationship. If you are slovenly obese, I would still be your friend, but as far as relationship no, dating no..I would think that person has other priorities to take care of before getting involved in a relationship. Being 30lbs or more overweight is a little irresponsible, and i understand some people have conditions, but moreso than not being obese just comes from lack of taking proper care of oneself, and if you cant take care of you, how can you take care of me?

 

Fat women have tight pussy's.....and it tastes like a skinny bitches pussy too..so wat's a deal....

 

wow. i havent encountered such a shallow group mentality since i made varsity cheerleader a decade ago.
for a group of people who have names like "oneLove" and "peacemaker" you all sure are judgemental.
i am willing to bet that those of you out there who so adamantly hate on our fat friends are not the greatest catches in the lake, yourselves. what is it that makes ANY of you think you can sit in judgement of another person? you see a fat person on the street and you instantly make judgements about them, sum them up as a whole because of their physical appearance. thats as shallow and wrong as judging someone on the color of their skin.
if you dont like someone, you don't like them. if you are not attracted to someone, you are not attracted to them. but simply because you don't care for someones looks or physical appearance does not give you a right to decide if they are a worthy person or not. no human is intrinsically bad-- fat, skinny or otherwise.

 

who's judging? people are stating their preference.

"hate"? I'm sorry, the only hatred I see here is coming from you, collectively judging everyone in this thread and telling us all we're not the greatest catches.

I'm not standing judgement on anyone. but I won't date fat people.

now that's just a dumb statement. you can't change the color of your skin (unless you're michael jackson) but you sure as shit can start exercising and eat less, even if you're not a celeb.

who is talking about "worthy person"? this thread is about whether or not people would date a fat person, which, let's face it, is a big part of physical appearance and attraction.

your views are flawed. being fat is about more than physical appearance, it's also about health. as isoceles said, if you can't take care of yourself, how can you take care of me? I know for a fact that 90% of overweight people can change their lives around in as little as three months if they were just willing to be a little uncomfortable, start exercising, and eat less & proper. I've helped people lose a lot of weight and improve their lives significantly. but there's no magic pill, no easy shortcut, you gotta get off your ass and put in the effort and commit, and accept that you're going to be uncomfortable in the process.