Would using a large dildo ruin sex with your bf/husband?

I have all sorts but must admit never thought of something quite that big. But hell why not try it!!!!

 

Might start with something a bit smaller than 12 inches. Use lube and you will be fine. He should love watching.

 

My girlfriend and I have two dildos that we use all the time. 12" is a good bit longer than what will most likely fit but the extra length will give him something to hold on to. If he's like me seeing that large of a toy working you over will be an awesome turn on.

Our 10" dildo is a little under 2" wide and made with a really soft material. It slips in easily and I can really work her hard with it. It's awesome feeling it bottom out in her. It has no base so I just hold onto the 3 or 4 inches that won't fit.

Our other favorite is 7.5" long but a little over 2" wide is a little more firm but still soft on the outer layer. It's a dual density material and has a base. The girth takes her a little longer to warm up to but once she's turned on she really enjoys it. I have to hold it by the base as once we're going at it she can take all of it in.

Our smaller ones are just never used anymore. We started small just out of fear they wouldn't be enjoyable for her. We quickly figured out the larger toys are just way more exciting, at least for us.

Enjoy your new toy, ours have been a lot of fun.

 

We have an 8 inch dildo and 10 incher. Yes, immediately after, you will be looser. Think is, you will be more sensitive too. So even if he goes right after you get finished with the toy, your nerves are gonna be so sensitive, even just the slap of his balls during thrusting could set you off. Then as your pussy contracts from orgasm, you will feel tight to him and it will all be fine again

These are experiences I've had but I am only one guy. I would say, get the dildo and try for yourself

 

I had a friend who liked using large toys on herself. She had several all of the larger variety. When I had sex with her after she used her toys. I always told her to be sure to let me know if I hurt her. She never did.

 

I have a sort of similar situation with my partner. I'm only 4.5" long 5" wide but the Dildo we use is 8' and thick. If I go inside her straight after using the dildo, she can tell the difference and feels loose/can't feel me. But if you do it the next day you'll be fine and feel him again.

Sex will still be enjoyable too. Although when it comes to pure pleasure my girlfriend prefers the dildo no doubt, she still enjoys doing it with me since it's real skin and me (if it was with another real guy who was hung that would be another story). I think the main issue would just be psychological. Sometime when we have sex, my gf can feel me well and she feels tight to me but she starts imaging big dicked guy doing her and she starts to loosen up so that could happen to you too.

 

My wife and I have been using large dildos and toys for many years and it has definitely added to our sexual experiences rather than spoiled them in any way.

Get one and I'm sure that you will both enjoy playing with it.

 

bang a dong get it on...

 

No, but being a giant dildo might ruin sex with your bf/husband.

C/S,
Rev J

 

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It's not the size of the dildo that can be a problem, it's the never-ending erection. No man can ever match that. You don't want to get used to it too much.

 

"Honey it's been over 4 hours - I think we should call the doctor..."

 

...Ken said, to Barbie.

 

I have used a big dildo on my wife before. Considerably larger than myself. It was hot seeing it go in her and afterwards she really got off on my fucking her.

I don't think it'll stretch you to where your man won't be able to satisfy you anymore.

 

I think most women would prefere the real thing. I know my woman did. She used large toys, but anytime I was erect, she wanted the real thing.

 

In her New Orleans cabaret show, Gennifer Flowers used to say about the Viagra erections that lasted too long, "Don't call a doctor, call me!"

 

My wife enjoys using a large dildo as part of our foreplay. I think she fantasizes about her earlier lovers and it helps get her hotter. It's just one tool, along with my mouth/tongue, my fingers, and finally, my cock. No issues.

 

Talk to your husband about it. If he's ok with it, then do it! Me and my guy play with vibrators and a small dildo I have, he lovessss watching me slide it in. And to the person saying vibrators are bad because they'll make your clit desensitized, I don't believe that at all. I've been using one for probably 11 years, pretty much daily and mine is extremely sensitive.

 

Women are pretty lucky when it comes to insertions. Many, many different lengths, girths, textures and colors to play with that have (I presume), all manner of feelings for you-all. What can we men do that compares? Not much. Skin up---skin down. Whoopee.

 

My wife and I actually do this on a regular basis. I'm only 5 inches so on tge smaller side of average. We have a 10 inch dildo that is a lot thicker than me. We use it almost every time we have sex. The benifits is she gets off super fast with it but it also makes he swollen so feels a lot tighter. Not that she jas any problem with that. She also said that it makes me feel a lot bigger in her and gets off to that as well. For us, it works and is a lot of fun.

QUOTE="Hotty Toddy, post: 7521951, member: 269971"]I want to try using a dildo. I've been with my husband for a few years. I just want to try something new. He is actually okay with it.

I want to get a rather large and thick one. Its just mentally stimulating to have something big. It would definitely be on the upper end of dildo sizes (probably 12+ inches & really thick). I guess it has a kinky element to it.

My husband is on the lower average size of around 5 inches. I'm just concerned that using a large dildo would make sex with him unsatisfying. Maybe I wouldn't be able to feel him. I'm thinking maybe I should reconsider

Do any women here have any experience with using large dildos?[/QUOTE]