Would/Have you a friend?

never have, but I want to.

 

I did when I was younger,teens, but not now. it would be nice though.

 

I would be way too shy to have a friend touching my cock lol. I guess i'm insecure, but that's something I would like to keep in my own privacy, and masturbation is like one of the only things I have control of lol. A friend wouldn't be able to do it like I would lol.

 

I had a threesome with friend from school a couple of years ago. It as all going well sucking the guy off kissing each other etc... Then I let him in my butt! She thought I was disgusting!

 

who said anything about blowjobs?

 

No, but I've had a masturbation girlfriend! :-D


I only want a masturbation friend if it is a girl

 

i have masturbated other females and males.. it is alot of fun

 

I wouldnt do it with any of the friends i have now, but maybe with some new friends

 

I had a friend that we would mess around. One night I spent the night at his house and it was late and we were bored. I asked him what there was to do and he joked and said, "you could suck me off".


I hesitate and then said okay. From that point on from 9th grade through a senior in high school I would get calls form him asking if I wanted to spend the night. He would then lay back and look at playboys while I sucked him off then he would return the favor and whack me off. Once we graduated that was that.

Sometimes I miss him.

 

I had a "fuck buddy" without the fucking, if that makes any sense. We used to hang out and make out and masturbate together. I think she was a virgin who didnt want to fuck, so it was in a sense a masturabation buddy.

 

hmmm, sounds fun, i would like a masturbation buddy, anyone interested?!

 

No.. but the flatmates buy the same toys.. and play with them at the same time.. and then relay how it was..

 

The idea or fantasy sounds enticing, but how do ask a buddy of yours to jack you off or let you jack him off...a lot of people have the fantasy as I do, its the rejection and/or criticism that would go along with it....Like someone said before there are varying degrees of sexuality, having someone jerk me off or jerking another guy off is pretty big turn on, for me where the line is drawn between gay and/or straight is that I have no intimate or attractive feeling towards another guy...I am actually disgusted at the thought of kissing another guy or having sex or any intimate relations with a guy....I do however have a fascination with cocks since I love my own and have always wondered what it would be like to masturbate one thats not mine.....and thats where it ends for me

 

I'm happily married and have a wonderful sex life with my wife, but I fantasize about cock all the time. I love the idea of jacking another guy off, and sucking his cock. I prefer the fantasy of doing it with a guy I don't know, someone I meet in a hotel bar, say, and will never see again.

 

I find it hot as hell to watch a woman masturbate, but for some reason my wife--who is very hot sexually in other ways--won't do this. She finds it too embarassing. She sees me doing it all the time, stroking myself over her tits, or over her face while she licks my balls. Probably my hottest orgasm ever was when she licked my ass while I stroked myself to orgasm. I'd love for us to masturbate side by side, but she won't do it. I like the idea of doing it regularly with another guy, but I prefer it to be someone who isn't in my life in any other way. WEird, I know.

 

a friend and i used to. then we got caught by his mom and never did it again. i wish his mom would've helped out. that would've been hot

 

From what i've gathered, this is something that happens when you're young and just learning about masturbation and sex, and when you're in a situation where there are very few females, like jail for instance. How does the saying go? "If you haven't had sex for 6 months you're not liable for who you sleep with"....i think thats more in reference to fat chicks but you get my drift...

 

Well, I have to thank you guys. There have been some crazy posts in this forum, but at least I am learning a lot. About four years ago, I wound up masturbating with a friend from the gym. I have ovserved other men jerking together but would get offened. This was during my non masturbatory period. My friend invited me over to his place and we had a frank conversation about sex and masturbation.

He suggested that I jerk with him and I said no. The naive part of me thought that it would make one gay and he said that it was not the case. He said that it was natural to do it in front of others and that he had given other men hand jobs. I still said no. I stayed overnight at his place and could not get to sleep because I was horny and after carefully thinking it over, decided to jerk with him.

We sat naked on his couch (sitting around in the nude is our routine when I visit him) He sat close to me on his couch which made me really nervous.
As I was masturbating, he asked me if I wanted for him to give me a hand job. I think that he was trying to get me while I was feeling the sensation of myself. However, I told him no because I didn't want another man touching me. All I know is that when the climax came, I shot up like a loaded watergun. It felt great, but akward.

When I visit him, then environment is very loose. We get naked and pow wow. We talk about anything and everything whether it be sexual or non sexual. I have the freedom to go and jerk in front of him if I want or just go into the bathroom and do it.

After spending time with him and being exposed to some different stories and jerking with him, I still have no desire to have sex with him or any other man. I just liked the freedom of being able to go against the grain by sitting around with someone else naked, bonding and jacking with someone who felt the same way I did. People normally think something like that is weird which I can understand.

For me, I had to be honest with myself and find out what my purpose was for doing it. I don't wonder about stuff anymore because I learned to talk more. I feel like I can breathe now and am more comfortable with my sexuality. If a man jerks with another man, does it make him gay? I would say it depends on the purpose. In my case, it has not turned me gay while other gay men may use the activity for sexual stimulation. Situations could be different.
I am grateful for this board and reading some of your comments that way I don't feel so weird about things. Thanks guys!

 

Mutual Masturbation with another guy is a strange, yet very enjoyable experience, as your hand is providing the motions that you yearn for, whilst he is doing the same to you. Therefore, because your own individual desired rhythms are unlikely to be identical you get that 'out of synch' sensation, which feels a little bit as if you were masturbating with a glove on. One part of your brain knows that the hand is busy masturbating, while another can tell that it is being masturbated, yet both can tell that something feels out of phase, and this is what makes things additionally stimulating.

 

I own my own free masturbation site. www.frogn.com. I have also ran several others on the web and one of those had went to almost 23,000 members. I think it is safe to say that I might be qualified to speak with a bit of authority based on that experience and specifically in this topic. I hope what I say here will help many of you and make sens to the rest.

I can absolutely and most confidently say, that most men, if homophobia was removed from the picture would absolutely enjoy wanking with a man friend or more. Not only that I know most men find it incredibly hot to watch another man or woman orgasm. The universal reason for that is because they can relate to what the guy is feeling and it is most arousing to them. Not all men would want to engage in mutual masturbation though. However, more often than not they would enjoy it but even more than that is they would enjoy feeling another persons cock in their own hand. Men enjoy thinking about stroking someone elses cock. Finally you would be very surprised how many would even enmjoy sucking a cock as well.

Now, let me be very clear on this point. These for the most part are all hetro sexual "straighT" men. I absolutely believe it was intended by design that men enjoy sexual activity for sex and take a woman for meeting the less frequent emotional need of love making. That is just my opinion of course.

Listen, we were all created sexual creatures Its a fundamental part of being a human being. To deny or surpress this fact is bringing dishonor to the beauty you are and to your creator. In males it is not only a fundamental characteristic of being human, but a primary one. Just as your pole is reflecting in its numbers so did ours. They all clearly show that most men would enjoy having a same sex masturbation buddy and of those men a n extremely high percentage would love the opportunity to at least once masturbate another.

Bottomline, it is a normal healthy expression and one that is truly world wide and very erotic to a very large percentage of the male population.
It has absolutely nothing to do with being gay. You know you are at least bisexual when you find yourself attracted to the same sex in purely nonsexual situations. If you think the act of stroking a cock or watching it spurt in orgasmic bliss is hot as hell... you can rest assured you are simply a healthy human being.

One quick note of interest... my first experience in this area was the first time I stumbled into a video chat room like we have on frogn. I was horny as hell and when i went in there my mouth hit the floor. There were 3 men on video cam stroking right there for me to watch WOOOHOOO I was in heaven I just knew it...hehe... Anyway as I sat watching I noticed they each were standing with a shot glass in front of them. They were likely from various parts throughout the world but it dawned on me that what they were doing was trying to cum in the glass to see who could fill theirs first. LMAO I thought to my self.. "oh that is such a guy thing to do" That is true and it was cool and they were having a blast!! I think that young boys clearly should be doing these things growing up together. Its a way to bond and to have support when their bodies are changing and running in high gear hormone wise. I learned more in that 3 days I spent in that room nonstop (hehe) then I could have paid for in college. I highly recommend you come in to one like ours and simply observe. You will forever be a much more healthy person from having done this. I guarantee that.

Please celebrate who you truly have been created to be. It is not wrong, or indescent. It is human!! For males it is a requirement , not a luxury and truly you have no choice in the matter. Girls understand that your man will always masturbate , because they have too and simply because they love too. It has nothing to do with sex and in fact, nothing whatsoever to do with you. Further, understand that the job must be done and to get the job done more efficiently , and because men are visual creatures porn is used. Porn is merely a tool. The best and quickest way to get the job done. Nothing more , nothing less. It means nothing. It has nothing to do with you. Buy them porn, you have nothing to be jeaolous about I am positive. Truly it is like using a hand potato masher compared to an electric mixer to mash potatoes. Which would you use? And especially if you made mash potatoes a minimum of once a week?? You would use the mixer and they use the porn. It makes perfect sense. I do hope this helps someone and that it is received in the spirit intended!! Peace

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