lol i think alot of the "fighting" actually results from the lack of seeing emotions of other people while typing,,, i know many a time when folks gets all mad over a post i or we make are often we be sittin here giggling or joking about what is written and really dont try to come off as anything other than a normal debate but then again sometimes devils advocate is fun too ...all we have is our own emotions to work with on the net n not of those we are "speaking" too... so we jump to crazy conclusions that if we could see the facial expressions n body language we most likely wouldnt come to in many situations
i think it's just the better than ya'll attitude that resembles a bitch that needs to go before anyone will give you a true chance to talk separating yourself categorically is a perfect way to create distance and misunderstanding try to bridge the gap instead
To be honest, sometimes I wish my mom had been more strict with me. I just always got away with everything I wanted and always did everything I wanted to do, because I always seemed to be able to talk my way out of things, or convince her how good my ideas were and how it was going to benefit me. I'm not proud of this though and I think I've been way too spoiled and NOW I can see how it affects me in life. I cant remember ONE single time I was "punished" for anything I did, and believe me I did do a lot of things. I was just such a rebel, always on a rush, wanting to do everything, because this day was my last... crazy, I'm not like that anymore, I've changed quite a lot with time and there's only a small shadow of that crazy kid.