Women, Why Do We Show Cleavage???

I guess you're right...That theory's been "generally disregarded." I just saw this on Wikipedia:

 

I don't show cleavage, so I don't know. Then again, I don't really have large breasts either.

 

Just showing cleavage has never been very attractive in my opinion. Honestly, it kind of just looks unclean to me. Especially since a lot of the time people only show cleavage when they are wearing a push-up bra 5 sizes to small.
Though I am prefectly okay with women being topless.

 

I show my cleavage because I feel really insecure if I don't think I look feminine enough. I don't know why, I just like looking more girly than tomboyish.

 

^Exactly.

 

I don't feel like I look like a tomboy just because I don't show cleavage... Personally wearing a skirt or something makes me feel more feminine.

 

I don't necessarily feel like a tomboy whenever I don't show cleavage, but I guess I just like having some cleavage because it shows off the positive aspects of my curves.

 

I'm actually really uncomfortable showing cleavage. I have pretty big boobs, though, so they kind of stand out on their own. But I get uncomfortable when you can see down my shirt...even though I have a lot of shirts that show that area in general. My boobs spread too far apart, my cleavage doesn't do the whole up and squished together thing unless I squeeze my boobs together with my arms. And I don't feel comfortable wearing push-up bras because they pad all those fancy bras, and dammit, they're big enough already.

 

Cool, that makes sense

I guess because my feminine attributes do not include my breasts I can't relate

 

I really think its just how you do it... I think you can have some cleavage and not have squished boobs and still look modest. I am never called sexy or hot or anything like that... i like to be called natural, pretty, or cute. But thats just me.
I don't really care what people think but at the same time i don't want guys to think of me as some piece of ass...
Once i heard a guy say "i'm gunna ride to look for some hoes."

And i don't want to be one of those girls that they look at.
I used to only wear like t-shirt,jeans and/or a hoody.

Now i wear what i really want...
Sometimes i don't mind wearing something that might flaunt a little...
I don't have extremely large boobs but i don't have small boobs either... guys really look either way. Sometimes i like to wear v-neck shirts or a dress that might be a little low.. Or maybe even a little short but i don't just throw myself out there looking for attention. The other day i was at work and i was just walking and a guy i work with made a comment about my boobs and i don't flaunt at work.

Some women just can't help it... I know plenty of women that wear t-shirts and their boobs are still everywhere. I don't envy you. Everyone is beautiful and i think that people should treat their body with respect cause you only have one.

 

At my size, it's either cleavage or a turtleneck. Oh well.

 

whats this "cleavage" thing you speak of....

I havent had one since I had my last kid and my milk came in.....I was in awe, and couldnt stop looking at myself.....

Unfortunately....it didnt hang round

 

It is insecurity. I find that women that have large breast that are natural typically are modest unless they are overweight or don't want attention drawn to anything but their boobs. Fake boobed women on the other hand, it's like they bought a new pair of shoes and want everyone to see them. If your tits are your best asset, then you don't have much going for you. But if you show them we are going to look at them. Unfortunately all we think about is banging you, not getting to know you and find out why you are so marvelous.

 

So for you married babes - do you mind if your man is looking at another woman's tits? If so, remember what you show to other men is fair game for your man to look at the same amount on another woman.

 

they are for two things; feeding babies and attracting the opposite gender. mine do a fine job of the latter and i haven't done the former yet. but mine won't attract all that much attention in public anyway unless they were uncovered.

 

I don't show cleavage. I once bought a, "titty blouse," at the urging of my daughter. The thought of wearing it outside the house makes me cringe. I mean I don't want that kind of attention. I would feel absolutely silly wearing it. Of course guys would look, but I don't want to be seen as just a pair of tits. I think that women should have more mystery than just, "Putting them out there." The kind of guy I would attract while wearing a titty shirt, I wouldn't want!

 

Why is everyone acting like cleavage automatically means they're hanging out and swinging free for all to see? Why can't you have a little bitty bit of classy cleavage? It's not all bad... It took me a long time to develop mine. I am rather proud of them. They aren't hanging out, but sometimes a wonderbra and a scoopneck (not a v-neck, lol, I'm not JLo) make me feel like a goddess.

It's hard to explain without sounding like I'm an attention-seeker with daddy issues (as is the stereotype for women who are comfortable with their bodies), but I don't think the way to feminism is to button up to the neck and pretend we aren't attractive, beautiful, sexual beings. I really think that's cheating yourself. Boobs aren't dirty things. They are beautiful, they are baby-feeders, they are a symbol of fertility and beauty and they should be celebrated.

I am very sorry if this offends those who are less endowed. I do not mean to say that you are less of a woman, as I know that is a sore subject as well. The idea is being comfortable with your body. I have been the girl with no boobies. In this society, it is something you have to make peace with, as does the girl with ample boobies to share who can't change the fact that they will be forever objectified at every turn. Not everyone can fit the cookie-cutter ideal, and that's beautiful, too, the fact that there is so much diversity to appreciate for different reasons.

In the end, it's about balance. It's not healthy to fixate on them any more than it is to deny their existence and their beauty.

 

Very well said.... I Love Boobies and Cleavage :love:
I saw this girl the other day that didn't have a lot of cleavage but what she had she was showing it off. I am not sure if it was her very white skin or the fact of what she was showing but it was very sexy.

 

I'm a Leg man myself .. however .. one's eyes cannot help being attracted to the sight of a cleavage especially if they are exposed (so to speak)
I think it may have something to do with the eyeline, when talking to the lady it is a natural instinct (.......or is it)

 

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