He would say it to who was their first.. When I go places with my bf and we are standing side by side, they ask him most of the time or look at both of us... I see where you are coming from, but that doesnt happen all the time.. Its a mixed draw..ya know.. plus thats not using my body for anything..im standing there and if the person so happens to ask me, thats not my doing, ya know what I mean.. sorta hard to explain...
As I said, I do not question your intent. However, you do have some advantages based on your age and looks. Now I will quickly admit that there are a lot of down sides to that. Discrimination based on age and gender is very real. Nevertheless, an attractive person in our society has a certain advantage.