Wife wants to be used in bed

Sounds like she wants to be dominated.
She wants you to take charge of her body and mind and make her feel like a woman. Don’t ask her what she wants, think dirty and just do it!

 

I don’t want to speak for another woman, but for me, that would mean do what you want to me and I would hope it would wake up the neighborhood!

 

oldguynurse nails it right here......

And I hung on every word. I had some of those same thoughts after skimming a few comments in this thread. I have always loved Psych but at the same time keeping it distant because I do NOT EVER want to 'understand' everything that I do or want to do

I LOVE BEING SUBMISSIVE to my guy friends. But let me tell everyone very loud and clear, it is because I TRUST them to always take care of me. I would never submit even halfway to any guy that I did not know very very well.

 

Well you spoke pretty well for me hun

 

My wife arranged all meetings, with couples and threesomes. I had a couple of fwb, who said they would like to meet with me and wife for fmf threesomes. I just never pressed it. Never even asked wife if she would be interested. She liked to choose her partners, she had the attitude, I didn't care who I was with.

 

I totally agree with this!! When my wife and I first married, she was the epitome of vanilla. She was raised in an extremely strict household with definite ideas about women's roles in marriage along with heavy doses of negativity concerning her body (fathers can be so dense). Fortunately, we had an active, but highly predictable sex life. Over time, I kept encouraging her to tell me about any sexual fantasies she would have. As the comfort and safety levels grew between us, her fantasies became a little wilder. Then she began asking to experience some of them in reality, with me never knowing this would lead her to become as open about sex and her body as she has. While she has not exactly stated that she wants me to use her, the requests are usually much more specific in what she desires from me.

It did take time for all of this happen, but has been well-worth it. She has gone so much further than I ever expected in her quest to discover her new self.

 

I have posted many times about my wife the blow job queen in college. She freely sucked cock but the pussy was her prize and was very conservative with its availability. Contrast with my fwb who gave and gives the pussy freely but not her mouth and my bi sexual divorced fb who gives up both. Anyway when my asks me to ravish her, all I see is a 5’1 or so tiny blond 36d in great shape giving me carte Blanche in which case she will receive extensive oral pleasure with digital anal massaging as I use my fingers on my other hands in her pussy along with my mouth and tongue. She wail have multiple orgasms and squirt and after some time i slowly insert my hardness and gently go in and out. She does not always cum with intercourse so this is generally the tail end of our ravish session and then I explode in her.