Why would women date younger men

What about if he's got a BIG dick?

 

Nope. If he’s not concerned about my pleasure he’s outta here.

 

Why? They like sexual intercourse. Based on our experience men are physically selected out of the intercourse business well before women. Viagra is a widespread indicator that often is of limited usefulness. I’m sure my partner wouldn’t mind me being about 15 years younger.

 

You heard what she said! That’s it!;-)

 

Men need to give women more credit in the relationship department I agree with Granite 45 that the time clock for women to satisfy their sexual needs far exceeds that for all men. Women have the same level of curiosities for sexual satisfaction. It makes sense that young men need a mentor in their sexual development to teach them how to satisfy a woman. It would also free teenage girl from a barrage of groping and encouraging her to have sex before she is ready Psychologically. I recall about a time long ago when I worked at a food processing plant. I was 21 and my collogues were all women in their 30s and 40s. Most were wither divorced and had to work, Single, or married with cheating husbands. I had never experienced so many women wanting to have sex with me. I now regret not taking advantage of the situation, beyond eating delicious food from their home kitchens.

 

“Counter to normative gender expectations regarding deficient female sexual desire and willingness to have sex, many of the older women in Dr. Alarie’s study believed that their intensive sexual history was exceptionally appreciated by the younger men. The women’s level of sexual knowledge, desire, and conduct was in marked contrast to the sexual passivity and inexperience of younger women. In addition, the younger men’s sexual stamina and erectile capacities helped shift gender power dynamics in favor of older women.”

5 Reasons Some Women Prefer Younger Men​

Jacqueline Sanchez Taylor writes in her little study Female sex tourism: a contradiction in terms? in the Feminist Review, 83(1), 42–59. [2006]:

“The ideal man prizes and embodies a masculine identity that is constructed as above all not womanly (e.g. tough, violent, independent), and yet somehow also manages to value woman and female virtues such as tenderness, gentleness and devotion above all else. He is, in other words, also a contradiction, simultaneously different and the same, and it is not surprising that in real life, few women manage to find him. […]

In many Third-World tourist resorts, female sex tourists find themselves presented with opportunities to ‘attract’ these ‘real men’, and so to personify the ideals of femininity and heterosexuality that they are taught to aspire to. Equally, if not more importantly, they can find a ‘real man’ to sex them (thereby publicly affirming their ‘femininity’) without losing control and becoming a real woman in the sense of being a social and political subordinate or risking being rejected and humiliated.

An American woman, who was a regular visitor to Jamaica, summed up a popular recurring view of many women interviewed and was explicit about the control she enjoyed: Women who come [to Jamaica] like control. They don’t need a man in their lives except for sex, don’t need them for money – just sex – because they can’t do that for themselves. Better to have someone uneducated that acts like a lackey and in your control, so you can say when it starts and when it stops.

Female sex tourists I interviewed generally spoke of feeling powerful in relation to local men, and some women also described feeling empowered in relation to white men, for in the Caribbean, where they could command the sexual attentions of black men, white men no longer had the power to control or reject them sexually. The kind of control exercised in their relationships with local men is actually very similar to that exercised by male sex tourists in sexual economic relationships with local women (O’Connell Davidson and Sanchez Taylor, 2005). On the whole tourist women do not enter into sexual relationships with middle-class men who would be their economic equals or superiors, but enter into sexual encounters with men working in the formal or informal sex industry. As affluent Western tourists, they are able to use their economic power to limit the risk of being challenged or subjugated.”​

Justin Lehmiller, a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the blog Sex and Psychology, says about MILF porn:

“While traditional gender roles suggest that men are “supposed” to be the initiators of sex while women are the gatekeepers, MILF porn presents a major reversal of those roles. Compared to teens, MILFs were two-and-a-half times more likely to initiate sex. MILFs were also much more likely to take control during the encounter. In fact, they were nine times more likely than teens to set the pace and direction of sex.

MILFs were also usually depicted as having higher occupational status over their male partners, something that was never once observed in any of the teen videos. Specifically, more than four out of five MILFs were shown having high status jobs, such as being the boss, judge, or teacher. By contrast, in MILF videos, men were usually depicted as students or lower-level employees.

These findings suggest that the men who are drawn to MILF porn may be turned on more generally by the idea of playing a submissive role to a powerful and dominant woman. My sexual fantasy data from Tell Me What You Want offer additional support for this idea.

Among straight men, I found that having frequent MILF fantasies was linked to having more fantasies about being sexually submissive, being sexually humiliated, and having sex forced upon you. It’s worth noting that, among heterosexual women, those who reported more MILF fantasies were more likely to fantasize about being dominant, sexually humiliating a partner, and forcing sex on someone else.

In other words, men and women alike seem to associate MILFs with certain aspects of BDSM. When you consider that BDSM is one of the most common sexual fantasy themes, this suggests that perhaps MILF scenarios are just one of many ways that people seek to enact those broader BDSM desires.”​

 

I think it is great dating older women. When I was a young lad a woman actually dated me I went with her for about a month. I suppose that I was being groomed but she was lovely quiet buxom seemed to wear skirts two sizes to small for her. She was thrilled that a young lad took interest in her.

 

Everyone is different but most women prefer younger men because they feel less threatened, they are more active, and more potent,

 

My wife did not date younger men, but she had one-time sex with several young men in their 20's when she was in her 30's. She enjoyed being desired by younger men as the "older woman" of their fantasies. The sex wasn't that great.