why the fuck do people get married??

I got married once when i didn 't want to, for international legal reasons, I did lose a lot of money...and then when I cheated after she left for 3 or 4 months at a time, they had to be called "affairs"

 

You smuggling in foreign brides Gar?

 

I did one

and she wanted to leave the whole time she was married to me, and then she wanted to stay when we broke up

she is still kicking around here somewhere. She called and left a message the other day, but i could tell by the tone of her voice she just wanted money again

Plus she told my dad to fuck off when we broke up, and ripped on my family, so that doesn't endear her to me either

 

ugh.

 

Some people actually make the decision mutually.

 

haha.. thank you I'm French actually.. but I'm living here, in NJ

 

double ugh

 

you know, the couple that made dave actually get over the fear of getting maried and having more children was this couple we knew in durango. she was from australia, with the ugliest teeth ever. but they were sweet. and their baby boy, and her "non-american breast feeding" ease totally chilled him out. and one day, when dave's sister's fiance lay dying in the ICU from a massive head injury (when she was 8 months pregnant with their daughter), he got to hold their sweet little baby boy and his whole world changed. i knew it the moment i walked off the elevator as saw him sitting there.

and i'm glad he didn't have another boy. because he has one adopted son already, raised by his ex wife. dave woulda been way too hard on both of them. instead, he has two little girls.

seriously, how did my life become a movie of the week?

 

too bad about the teeth. sorry that made me laugh. but I like that story alot

 

it's no wonder i don't like to deal with reality. it's all so "lifetime movie network."

 

The sweet sweet tax breaks.

 

possibly. Getting married was nothing to me. Been together this long, maybe we wont ever split up?

 

If we split, I'll probably never get married again....not much point.

family pressure was a lot of it as well. Traditional views.

 

You sound so..apathetic...

 

omg I know this is off-topic but I just had to say that those movies are.. probably the most predictable movies ever.

 

Oh definately.
And it is off topic, but these movies dont deserve a thread of their own , so its okay !