Why that slightly heavy girl is hot (while others are not)

even when I am thin I can't stand for anyone to see me naked. Catholic school I tell ya...

 

Well I am pretty sure that I'm the same bitch I was at 120lbs...and I still have the same friends. Go figure. I have fat friends and skinny friends, of both genders, and never noticed any weird personality complexes.

 

I always loved being naked. I loved it at a size 3 and I love it at a size 14. I figure if people don't like it, they don't have to look No insecurities there.

 

well, my husband's take on it was this: unless a thin woman is blessed with thinness and doen't have to work on it constantly, she's going to have way too many issues to deal with. she'll be perpetually concerned with everything that goes into her mouth. she'll stare in the mirror looking for the slightest ounce gained and perpetually concerned with how she looks in hose pants. this was his experience. with a REALLY heavy girl, it's frequently the same thing. but with a slightly heavy girl, what you've got is a woman who is healthy and still able to have a good time. they're not going to worry about every single calorie or beer and they're not going to writhe in an agony of shame when they miss a day at the gym or eat a piece of cake. they look good in their clothes, they know it and they're okay. which is why he likes SLIGHTLY heavy girls. less shit to put up with.

 

It jus depends. Ive seen fat girls who can work it and always look ready and have thier shit together. It jus all depends on the womans self respect and her pride in herself ..how she carries herself..does her hair/make=up ..dresses..etc. Much easier to over look a few extra pounds in that case. If she is jus fat lazy ass who look like a slob then she deserves to have people speak ill of her.

 

My ex-girlfriend was about 20 pounds over weight and i loved every single thing about her. Still do. She felt horrible about her looks because of the society we live in. I was extremly attracted to her because even tho she was 'soft', she was poportionate. One of the main factors in being attractive to another human is symetry. She didn't have a huge gut, massive arms, or thunder thighs. She had a little extra everywhere (including the chest ).

The reason some women that are equally heavy are more attractive then others is the way they carry it. If they dress accordingly (don't wear an 8 if your a 12, please please please) If they don't wear mid riff shirts without a tight stomache. My ex dressed elagantly and everything fit very well.

I knew one girl that was exactly the same size as my ex, and I thought she was hideouse to say the least. She was the girl that wore shorts that didn't touch the top of her pants, wore jeans that were 2 sizes to small, and almost flaunted the chub. I have no problem with heavier girls, but I don't want to see any crack when you sit down.

 

I think
I will never forget
The smell of her sweat
from under her armpits

she had a twat like Terry Waites allotment

 

i like this girl just a little overweight and she kisses awesome and has a great personality and has HUGE BOOBS

 

As an old guy and as a now confirmed "chubby chaser" who has thought about this long and hard I look on this as follows:
1. Yes, how a woman feels about herself is what makes her beautiful. I'll say that goes for men too. But being good looking helps.
2. Society is everything. And right now I think we are going thru the worst period of body image in human history. Don't ask me why. Marilyn Monroe, Rita Hayworth most of the real pin up stars of the forties, fifties and even the sixties would now be regarded as fat. Even Farah Fawcett.
3. The biggest Playmate was my beloved Anna Nicole Smith. There was a woman for you.
4. If you look at the Greek Aphrodites, none of them would qualify in today's body image, all would qualify as small breasted, big hips, and fat.
5. In the Biblical "Song of Songs" the bridegroom says of his love "(her) navel is a rounded goblet...(her)belly is a heap of wheat" something that doesn't sound like Calista Flockhart.
6. I've got nothing against slender ladies. It's just that currently it's been set as a new standard of body image in fashion magazines et al that to me is just weird. It is so pathological that when 40's pinups are reprinted they are photoshopped to fit in with the new "accepted" view of women.
7. Finally, if you want to see an undercurrent of resistence against this, look at an online porn magazine called Scoreland which features nothing but big women.

 

Something i hate is slighty heavy girls are trying to lose weight... their dream is to become slim... that's all girls' dream. I hate that !

 

The big difference for me between heavy chicks that I find attractive and unattractive is that the attractive heavy chick is supposed to naturally be that heavy.

What I mean by that is, some heavy girls you can tell should not be that heavy at all. They are not healthy with their current weight, it is hurting them physically. I find such girls unattractive in the same way I'd find any girl with a serious external health condition that needs to be fixed (skin rashes or other) to be unattractive.

But some heavy girls, they are supposed to be that weight. They are perfectly and completely healthy at that weight. I find those types more attractive, and the heaviness seems less obtrusive, and also because the heaviness also visually suits their figure.

 

While I generally like my girls athletic, I don’t mind a little fat

But these heavy weights are like a plague in america

After coughing-out a couple of kids they say ‘fuck it’ I’ve done my job and make their way to nearest sofa
for an afternoon of carbo-loading and oprah winfrey


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I dunno if it's been said yet but......MO' CUSHION FO' THE PUSHIN'!!!!!!!!!!!