Why Straight Guys Have Sex With Straight Guys

I consider myself to be bisexual simply because I enjoy having sex with both men and women. Whether my thinking is correct or incorrect is irrelevant to my wife and I as well as our lovers. It's the best was to describe myself that makes sense to us all. I've had a male "FWB" for the past eleven years, before I met my present wife whom I openly and willingly told her about. He and I got involved because at the time our wives were orally neglecting our needs. His present wife-my ex-wife. When either of us were in need of a blow job and the wives were not willing, we had an option. Both of our wives (my present) accept our arrangement because they are not wanting to suck our cocks as often as we like them to be sucked. He and I suck each other off about 10 times a month while our wives suck us off about 4 times a month. Neither of our wives are wanting to suck us off 14 times a month so they are glad that he and I have each other to pick up the slack. It's just a blow job between friends, and yes, he and I have three-some's with our wives as well. I assure you, none of us are sexually deprived because we all get the sexual attention that each of us needs on a monthly basis.

 

I know that when I was a young boy, my best friend would spend a lot of time in the woods naked and swimming naked and I liked seeing his nakedness. I had only a very small penis but his was very large and I like that. We would often masturbate together, it was something we were totally comfortable with because we were very close. I dated and been with girls throughout my life so I don't consider myself gay or anything. But when I was about 25 my best friend was in town and came over. We did what we often do and that was stripped naked and watch pornography. We had been drinking and taking some pills so we were really under the influence. Watching the pornography made me so very horny and Mike as well. He surprised me when he asked if I would like for him to suck my Dick, and to my surprise I said yes. It had been a really long time since anyone other than myself but their hands on my genitals and I had never got a blow job. It was really great and I didn't think twice about whether it was wrong or not because him and I were just so close and comfortable and it was okay. So I also put his Dick in my mouth and sucked it and we continued with all the other things that we did. We went at it for about two hours and the reason I can say that we did it was, besides being very hard and horny, was that it was at least brand-new to me and of course like I said we were under the influence but I think maybe I will head did it whether I was or not. About two months later he came over and asked me if I wanted to do it again but I told him no and that was the end of it.

 

This.

 

Exactly

 

Seems my edition of the “newspeak” dictionary is out of date. Perhaps unfortunately, given the current times, I passed my first year class in logic. Oh well. 2+2=5. Ignorance is strength.

 

I’m not sure why it has to be explained. I have the desires I have. At this point in my life I have had many more sexual encounters with men than women. I like both.

 

I consider myself straight, however I have in the past shared experiences with another male, non penetration, would also do it again. Its just a bit of a kick and we both enjoy.

 

I think that male to male intimacy is generational behavior for the most part. I was born during WW2 and grew up in a military family. Interracial intimacy and Male to Male intimacy were Taboo. I was taught to refrain from sex of any kind until I was an adult and preferably after marriage. Although I experimented with heavy petting in my early twenties, I delayed intercourse until two weeks before my wedding at 28. In the current generation adolescents are experimenting with sex in their early teens. The prevalence of porn on the internet has depicted graphic sex between Male-Male, Male-Female and Female-Female at the click of a mouse button. Males in this generation are inclined to believe that Male-Male sex is a behavior is a normal element of a healthy sex life. For me it is still Taboo until the day I die.

 

I commend you Wally for having the courage to state your opinion. It's your opinion and you have the right to do so. God Bless You.

 

Thank You LowHangers. It is a tragedy to be getting old and out of touch. From time to time I have viewed some Gay and Transgender Erotica. Some of it really bad. Occasionally I find a video that depicts two young gay men “loving" each other passionately. If one of the performers seems excited and responds like a turned on woman (Moaning and or Passionate kissing or embracing), I find it somewhat erotic and stimulating. That said there is never a temptation for me to engage in such activity, and I offer no criticism for those who do.

 

Totally open minded and accepting, but even if it's just sex I would consider that person to be bisexual.. you are able and willing to fool around with a person of the same sex as well as the opposite sex.. you are open to sex with both genders so I wouldn't call that person straight.. not at all shaming but right? Am I wrong? I don't have experience with this but that's what I'd call it

 

Thank you: I may be confused by some of the terminology. Terms like Teen (18-19 Year Old's) and Twink are not defined in porn Literature to my satisfaction. As a 100% heterosexual male with no horse in this race, it may be irresponsible for me to be making comments. Thank You - Wally

 

Thank you Wally. The word "teen" can be subjectively viewed as a minor or a young adult if the exactly age is not stated. The phrase "young teen" will tip the scale towards referring to a minor in our view. As stated in the guidelines, big brother is watching. Sometimes we must err on the side of caution. Thank you again for your thoughtful response.

 

My friend and I are both married with grown children, wives are done with sex.Both wives know and approve of our actions. We are just a couple of old horny dogs who want to get off by something other than our hand. The reality of being a horny old man is that we cant go chasing skirts like when we were young. Not too many takers for Silver Seniors . The wives wouldn't stand for it and we would be a couple of Broke Old horny guys. The reality of it is that we both take care of each others need for a healthy strong orgasm. We don't disire other men or cocks in general and we both do not feel attractions to anyone other than our wives and families. We are two straight guys who help each other out.

 

Yep

 

Interesting article, but inaccurate IMO.
Men and Women are not the same. Don't give a shit what the current philosophy is, biology exist. Even when you don't like it.
Any man who has "full on" sex with another male is no longer straight. By every definition that is not absurd.
What is "full on" sex?
Like you have with a woman, meaning... kissing, caressing... tenderness etc. an EMOTIONAL experience of affection.
If you desire than with another man... you are not straight. Obviously.

Having said that... there is cock attraction. Where you have absolutely ZERO interest in any manner of an emotional connection.. you just want to try and suck a cock, or would be open to a man sucking yours etc. That doesn't make you gay.
Every man on the planet is attracted to his own dick. It isn't that much of a leap to be attracted to another one... just not the man attached to it. Ergo why many straight men would have sex with a passing trans. That person is essentially a woman with a penis.

Anyway... if you have had, or desire to have full on sex with another dude - you are absolutely not straight.

 

Straight on straight is ok if you are testing the water or trialling your curiousity, it's all about the experience

 

I'm straight. I just want to circle jerk with my friends like back in the day. Then my wife can bring us cookies and juice.

 

I quite agree with this. I have had sexual contact with men and women over the years. I dont see myself fitting neatly into a catergory. I just like pleasuring myself, with a partner is even better. No matter what they have between their legs.

 

Im not gay but if i were trapped on a desert island with another guy who didnt look like the Elephant Man, within 3 months id be bringing him flowers.