Why is it so difficult for a Male to give a Female an Orgasm??

I think you just made a bunch of friends!

 

actually, i kinda agree with flake. i first had to learn how to orgasm with my man. had to relax. it may not be the WHOLE problem, there's the whole pushing WAY too hard on the clit thing (in fact, BLOWING on it may be enough), not enough foreplay and all that. but i do know there's quite a few women out there too uncomfortable to let go around their man (or their woman, as the case may be.)

 

I think, there are mainly two causes that prevent women from having an orgasm during intercourse:

- their brain halves have constant communication with each other. One of them likes sex and expects an orgasm, the other thinks of what to cook tomorrow and if enough food for that meal is around.

- the clitoris lies too much north is not touched by the penis. This may also be the man's fault. Before I had an operation at my hips, I had never encountered a girl that did not have a simultaneous orgasm. After the operation I just do not succeed anymore. Something with the angle must have changed.
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I have the "O" problem with guys.. I can get my self to Climax, but a guy can never get me to.

and having sex well.... doesnt really please me at all...

 

yeah, there's also the 'niceness' factor. a lot of ladies would prefer to lie to their men and tell them they're being satisfied than admit that they may need a little more stimulation. there's also those women who would prefer to SAY they climmax easily in order to appear more attractive to men. after all, men aren't really the pigs so many people like to say they are, and bringing a woman to climax is INDEED something to brag about. if your lady happens to be one of those who climaxes easily, all the more to brag about to your friends and acquantainces. your woman therefore earns a sort of rep for being a very carnal and therefore more attractive woman.

however, it's a bad road to go down. once you start down that road you can't really go back and teach your man the proper way to make you climax. he'll start wondering if you've lied to him. not comfie. start out the way you mean to go on, i say. tell him what you want, or do it yourself.

 

Some men can make me cum no problem and with other men well ... it can be more time consuming. It is in the technique and in the approach. Sure I sometimes think about dinner, but then sometimes it seems like I can will an orgasm too.

Something kayy said struck a cord ...

I am one of those women who don't fake it and believe me I feel the pressure because of all those women who do fake it.

There have been a couple of men who complained that I take way too long and I know that I don't take that long but they think I do because every other woman they had have come like within 10 min., but I know that they must have been with alot of fakes along with some women who come easily.

When girls are not real in their orgasm it does give men a skewed expectation that every other woman he comes across must now face. LADIES, PLEASE DON'T FAKE IT.

Some men can make me cum in 5 minutes and some men it takes them 45 minutes if they don't give up b4 then. I know what I like and I can explain it and I need it consistent, if he takes what guidance I give him and throws it out the window or doesn't keep it consistent or rushes me, than I'm sorry, but that just makes him a lessor lover for me.

 

yepper! if you're honest and request what you require for a great sexual interlude and orgasm, suddenly you're difficult because you're not like the phoney porn queens. i can tell you, if your woman's nipples aren't hard and her eyes aren't dilated, she's probably faking it.