Why is being a virgin an insult?

When I was a virgin (aka 15), I wanted to hold onto that titlle because it was precious, but afterwards, a new world woke up to me

 

i didn't get it, even then. we never had the virginity discussion. i staarted scoping out the boys at 13, found the right one at 14, divested myself of my useless extra skin flap and enjoyed myself.

if you dont' want to, don't. if you do want to, do.

 

i find the people who actually feel insulted by someone trying to insult them with this virgin thing tend to be pretty lame anyways. its a pretty lame insult to begin with.

 

In grade 7 my girl friends and I decided I would probably be the first to lose it. and I was. I just love love. But I lost it to a girl first, before a boy.

 

Teenager in the 80's sex was the thing. It was like a hand shake almost so in that day around my suburban life in a little subdivision of latchkey kids if you did not have sex you were so much outside the loop there had to be something wrong with you (according to childish popular kids points of view and standards). First time for me was a simple truth or dare game while hanging out in the new construction phase not yet sold (our little club houses) but were all furnished as model homes. I was like 12, still did not know if we did it right, lol but for sure by 14 had it skilled well.

Looking back as an adult I likely would have changed that chapter in my life a bit but you know the saying (young, dumb and full of....)

 

Now stop putting these really bad bad thoughts in my mind :smash:

 

So true!:cheers2:

 

So adorable.

 

we were in much the same situation, yank, except we were living in republican christian land in southern california. mainly i was choosy about the boy i started with because, frankly, i wasn't popular and if i fucked any of the available horn dogs sniffing around i'd be hounded forever. and yeah, i really enjoyed sex and frankly didn't think i'd be able to say no. personally i had no issues with it, but since i'd been called a slut since i grew massive breasts, i knew how the kids could be. they were HORRIBLY immature and completely incapable of behaving like adults about sex. but i found the one who could be. and MAN did we have loads of fun.

 

YOU WILL ALL GET AIDS!!!!!!!


Or something among those lines.

 

To quote Sam Kinison "The only 2 ways to get aids as a heterosexual is an infected load of semen up the ass or use the needle of drug addict that sucks dick for drug money." I used to love his shit! Was pure bull but funny!

 

TEH BUTTSECTS!!

 

Because the primary function of men and women is to procreate

That’s why there is no greater gift to whatever god you worship than a virgin sacrifice

http://youtube.com/watch?v=9b7m1AAFyww



Hotwater

 

Look, you asked a question and I answered that question. If you don't like the way I answered it, too bad. I am telling you what I know, not what you want to hear. As a person who has studied history going back thousands of years, I know that when a society is ripe for being brought down, sex and promiscuity are used to confuse, distract and demoralize. When you want to destory the family unit, as the ruling elite have openly admitted, you encourage maritial infidelity and promiscuity. Today this is promoted though the media and fashion industry. Follow the money and see where it leads. Use your brain.

There was once a time when modesty and marital fidelity were the norm. Today, it's not uncommon for women in their mid-20s to have three children from three different men. It's the norm for people to have had multiple sex partners before the age of 18. It's the norm for one in every four teenage girls to have an STD. It's the norm for 12 yr. old girls to dress like 20 yr. old strippers. It's the norm for children to be raised in single-parent households with no father. We didn't simply transform into this degenerate society overnight. It's been a long process that has since reached its peak. Nobody asks themselves why this is because people are products of their media, societal and educational conditioning.

If I struck a nerve with my pervious response, perhaps there is a reason for it, and maybe the truth is too much for you to handle.

 

You can't handle the truth!

 

Here you go, Gravity:

 

you do realize you're specifically speaking of patriarchal property based societies, right?

 

btw, i think that with new modes of finding out just who the daddy is, women owning property and transferring as she sees fit and such things that we're seeing more of a shift towards matriarchal family structures that simply the downfall of a patriarchal society. it's an uneasy blending of two classically successful types of society, but not necessarily a sign of the end of human civilization as we know it.

 

Sexual freedom...one big superstition!

There must be some kind of prohibition. Some kind of game.

 

the game doesn't have to be based on whether or not you CAN, but whether or not you WANT TO.