I’ve been accused of being conceited many times but I’m not. I have also told my guy friends I’d steal their girls but only joking.
Listen, just answer the question. Fine. BIG DEAL. Are you like the women in pornos? By "sex positive" you mean you just meet random guys and let them fuck you in the butt and stuff? Serious question from a troubled and confused individual.
I'm technically poly too, though I prefer the term free. Means you have sex with others while maintaining a relationship with somebody else. I think. I'm not even sure anymore. I love the one woman but in an open relationship where I'm allowed to find other partners for the night. Whatever the fuck that's called. Lol.
I would be devastated if my girl was like that. But if it was someone I was crazy about, she could do it and it would hurt me so bad. And I'd throw fits. Basically I'd be a cuck. A miserable cuck.
How does that work out? I've kind of had a similar idea but my wife and I are still lesbians who haven't been with a guy, except I'm stupidly curious sometimes hehe. Sometimes I think a added bf on the side would be fun.
It’s mostly good. My sexual and emotional needs are mostly met. But for a lot of MFF, it seems the man is the one who is the... scarcity or subject of jealousy. In our relationship that falls to me. Like my partners really won’t be together on their own. Sometimes I need a break and we all share a bed!
I get why poly relationships don't work for people but it works for us because sex is such an expression of freedom for us we basically find it pointless to try and confine it between ourselves. Now for you other highschool sweethearts there might be jealousy issues and hangups etc. but we no longer view sex as this monogamous reward for being with one another at all in fact sex has basically taken on a social connotation for us, well at least me however I'm fortunate enough to have a wife that encourages my extra corriculum activities which suits my sexual appetite quite nicely.
Yeah I could see that happened to us too because I'm definitely the curious partner who wants to try something else, my wife doesn't particularly want that for her, so if I did have a bf he'd be mine and I guess he couldn't get to say he's having a 3som lol.
It seems you have a great relationship with your wife. I have thought about trying to just open up the current relationship but my partners would freak out. So much drama.