Why don't good guys exist?

im a nice guy.. but theres no nice girls here.. and if they are nice they have drama or other sorts of baggage... plus not much family my age here...


Tampa Fl


Love and peace

 

yes, all guys like to have sex.


whats the problem?

animals need to pro-create, Mang.

 

well, in my experience there actually ARE nice guys out there... its just that some types of women really look at the wrong places for them. And if you are experiencing men displaying "macho" stuff.... well, is it possible you are attracted by men displaying this behavior? Obviously you know this behavior but for some reason you come back to men with this personality - taking your own words: there really is more to a man than what you see on the outside -so ACT on it. you complain about machos being machos - who forces you to go for them? Just try another type of men and dont expect to find a sheep in wolfeclothes.

I really hope this wasnt too harsh,

peace

 

Bluebird
A good guy will find you when you least expect it. They do exist, but as you say, they are very rare..

 

As being one. There is plenty of them out there. Though I thinking its doing to being overlooked more frequently.

 

There are good guys out there, just that they are usually too busy with their boyfriends

 

Id say i was a NICE GUY... but that would be a lie... at least for now. honestly im young, and i dont plan to settle down with a woman for a while. i dont like to date i like to party, and bang. i mean one day i will but not too soon. perhaps thats your problem all the guys you meet dont wanna have one girl for the rest of there life. personaly ive only loved one NICE GIRL. i though she might be the one to settle down with. so i tryed to and eeh i didnt work like i though it would. needless to say i havent found another NICE GIRL who i could love and be with forever.... so i wait and i wait. im searching for the right NICE GIRL so i can be a NICE GUY. untill i find her i wont be that NICE GUY. so you just need to find that NICE GUY.. it might take a while. thats my 2 sense i hope you the best of luck...

stay hip

 

Why do so many girls have the same stereotypical views of guys? And why cant they empathize and realize that yes, we are horndogs(well, some), but no, thats not all we want.

 

because they watch shit like "sex and the city" and "the tyra banks show."

 

exactly

 

Yeah, but they're going to hell when they die =/
you want someone who will be with you forever. lmao. jk jk.

 

What is more likely?, that... like you say bluebird, all the male human begins on the planet are somehow "unreliable" and "not good", or... your perception and experiences have and will continue to colour your future experiences with the male of the species?

It may be the case that what you are looking for does not exist, whatever notion of the ideal man you have, may not be compatable with reality, don't blame us men for that.

 

I don't really think that that's the point
Alot of women have very strong sex drives, some equal or surpassing that of the man in their life
I love sex
But I am starting to really question, sex drive aside, are there really any men out there who are honest and trustworthy
I may be too picky but I expect that plus love and passion and laughter and all that comes with a good relationship
But my experience has been liars and whiners so I dunno
I'm willing to admit that maybe i'm just completely incapable of choosing men
Maybe I need to hire a professional boyfriend choooser lol

 

I know a decent amount of very trustworthy, reliable, honest men.

Having a dick doesn't make you a dick.

 

lol
will you be my professional boyfriend chooser

 

depends on how picky you are. haha

 

i mean i bet they're somewhere...

 

I dunno, I think I'm pretty picky
I want someone who makes me laugh, who has a strong work ethic, who is honest and open with me, who can satisfy my over active sex drive, who isn't intimidated by a strong woman and can stand up to me, who is intelligent and creative,who is a strong man and a good father, who makes me weak in the knees when he kisses me, who i can trust and rely on above all else

that's not asking for too much is it?
lol

 

I know right
I'll make you a deal raz if you come across some you let me know and i'll do the same
lol

 

why dont good guys exists?

ITS BECAUSE WERE ALL BAD ASSES!

ARGG!!!