Something usually just triggers me off and I have to masturbate to satisfy the urge. Like if I randomely think about a hot chick or something like that. It just erupts from there.
Because fantasies that are dark are best experienced in the mind and alone. If I know my girlfriend is into a particular fetish or fantasy, sure I'll do it with her instead of in masturbation. Then other reasons.. 1. Makes me feel sexy 2. I can make myself feel better than even the hottest girls in bed (sorry ladies..) 3. Releases hormones for balance and happiness 4. Porn is much more geared to masturbation, and I love to get off on porn. 5. Masturbating without cumming increases my *needs* in general for sex. I'll be supercharged horny for my girl next time we touch.
You must have some awesome self control LOL I can do the stop and go method a few times, but dude... When I do that like 5 or 6 times, I gotta finish.. No way am I going to walk around without blowing my load after that... It's too uncomfortable LOL :afro:
I do it to relieve the pressure on my prostate from a full bladder. That pressure tends to make me horny, so why not do something about it? And if it's normal to pee after cumming, it just makes more sense to wait until I already have to pee so I can kill two birds with one stone.
** too true.. a few months ago i was 10 mins early for an appointment with this very sexy lady, around my age but just oozing sex.. you know the sort.. not classically beautiful, but she has the X factor.. anyway I'm not ashamed to admit I felt the need to slip into the gents and shoot it out beforehand other wise I'd probably have had a visibility crisis in the meeting..
You should have taken her to the gents LOL... Oh wait... Maybe been watching too many pornos.... :biker: But... Could happen....
I love masturbating anyone who doesnt is crazy! i get sex all the time lol but when he is at work i usually lay in bed and finger myself, making it nice and wet for when he comes home.
Just thinkin of it is a total waist of time just pop one out quickly and get on with ya day if you Finnish work early then have another it's simple The secret to happiness is low expectations
I have always masturbated from about the age of 11/12. There are times during a marriage when it is the only option. Now, after being a widower for many years it is always the only option. Living on my own creates ample opportunity whenever the fancy strikes. I see from other forums that there are many like me who would like to get together with another for mutual activity but there are not many who seem to manage to make the connection.