Why do women cheat?

I've cheated on my girlfriend when she was at disneyland lol. My reason was that I wanted to experience other women, since my gf was the only one I've ever been with. I'm not justifying it at all. It wasn't the right thing to do. Cheating is an immoral thing, theres no way to justify it.

 

Women cheat for the very same reasons as men do. They like having a variety of shapes and sizes in their life as well. The more important question is how do we get women to open up and talk about all of their abhorrent feelings such as this. Our society (since antiquity) has crippled women so successfully that many of them can't even discuss having desires to be with more than one person. Try it out. Ask 10 of your female friends (if you are a guy) if they are excited about finding that one true love and marrying him. Ask if they are equally excited about being with that person and that person alone for the rest of their life. 80% will "say" yes that is what they want. Saying and actions are 2 different things. The rate of actual and mental infidelity in society tells another story. The story it tells to me is that humans are serially monogamous. Given the opportunity and ideal situation, humans tend to be non-monogamous in practice.

 

When women sneak around and cheat, I think in most cases, they aren't happy with what they have now, and are open to the possibility of replacing their current mate.

Women aren't as likely to want variety. In this way, I know that I'm somewhat unusual. But I don't need to lie to my husband to work this out.

There are times when I need some reassurance that men still find me attractive, but flirting is sufficient to satisfy that curiosity. No need to close the deal, which can lead to all kinds of problems.

 

to kill there husband and collect the life insurance

 

cuz they're selfish .. ?

 

How immature. Pay more attention to me, or I will fuck someone else, because I'm a princess who deserves everything as soon as she wants it.

Women, as men, cheat because they have no problems with lying, deceiving, and they don't respect their partner enough to tell them straight up and/or break up.
But sure, blame it on the cheated.

 

People justify cheating to themselves many different ways. You are in controll of your own choices. Just make sure you are able to handle the consiquences of your choices because your spouse will find out

 

Women cheat for the same reasons men do and there are many. Shitty relationship is one. If her guy thinks it's all about himself, if he gets boring and lacks the need for sex. If he wants her to be his momma, if he drinks or does drugs to the point it irritates her or if he is abusive,,, and that happens to men as well in the same kind of shitty relationship.

It's sad that it happens but usually there is a reason unless your partner is just the kind to do so anyway and nothing could avoid it.

 

My aunt, the only woman I know personally that cheated, did so because her husband (my uncle by blood)
-was an alcoholic and spent his time getting drunk instead of spending time with her
-had ED issues and low sperm count- couldn't get her pregnant and she REALLY wanted a child
-it was sort of an arranged marriage, so they weren't really in love to begin with. She fell in "love" with a married man and had two kids with him. He never left his wife and their kids.

 

yes that and most girls are just sluts.

in the days of the old testament, girls would be stoned to death for cheating. why can't our society be more like that.

 

The problem with the question is that it is an euphemism magnet.

 

I have been cheated on by a few of my past GF's and so have many of my friends. I think that girls nowadays actually cheat more than guys but that it is kept hidden. If a girl finds out her partner is cheating she will tell the world where if a guy finds out he will fatten try and hide it as it is embarrassing to his masculinity. I also think that some guys and girls have personalities and physical attributes that cause them to be more prone to be cheated on. This is the reason why you normally find either guys that have never been cheated on or guys that have nearly been cheated on in all their past relationships.

From my experience the main reasons why girls cheat are;

They are bored in their relationship and are looking for excitement,
They are lonely because their BF is working long hours or leaves her on her own,
They are not being emotionally or sexually satisfied,
They simply aren't ready to settle down or don't consider the relationship as serious as their BF
They love men and flirting with them, are serial cheaters and hate feeling the trapped feeling in a relationship but always need to be in a relationship
They are always looking for a more attractive (financially/physically) guy
They are going through a hard time in their relationship and are always fighting
They had too much to drink and screwed up.
Their friends have or are cheating so it's acceptable and sometimes encouraged amounts her peers.

Obviously there are 1000's more reasons and they will vary depending on the persons life circumstances but the above reasons or a combination of them are what I have come across.

 

The only reason I would cheat is if my relationship went dead, if he don't care about me then I would want someone who did. I think I would tell him first that it's over tho and be done with him rather then cheating. Someone said on the first page it's about having a variety of sizes and such. I don't believe that one bit, maybe a slight few but it's usually about finding what feels like love I think.

 

Problem is a lot of people don't know what "love" is and their understanding of it is shaped by the media....which really does carry the message to treat romantic partners like things you trade-in or trade-up, when there's a rough patch.

Combine that with youth who either have repressed parents who can't be straight with them or realistic with romance and sex issues or/and who aren't good role models themselves and you have a ripe environment for promiscuity and deception, which takes the form of cheating.