Why do we like being told we're beautiful more than

don't forget to feed yourself though...if you give all your food away you'll wind up hungry. People say smiles and hearts are unlimited when in actuality our patience is the true test to how much you can give.

 

yes, I was sexually assaulted as a kid and I starved myself to offset puberty. I was terrified of getting breasts. I swore to god I was going to cut them off. Eating disorder or not it was a gift of god that I did not develop physically until I was ready to handle it emotionaly.

I still hate being looked at as a sexual object. I like looking and feeling attractive but am very uncomftrable looking sexual or provacative around men.

 

please just ask him to leave me alone Maggie. This IS the women's forum;why should I have to be consistenly insulted by a man on a women's forum? I've stopped posting in every other forum, barely come on here anymore and have to ignore his continous battering pm's-and why do I have to do this and post on another site instead?-because I don't have free-speech when somone is stalking my every comment. I am not going to reward his behavior by pming him. I just want to be left alone. Please as a moderator and so I can come back on here and feel comftrable please just ask him to leave me alone. I can't even post my private things or ask for advice without this crazy dude mocking me. He gives me the freaking creeps and I want him to leave me alone. I will be more than happy to disclouse pm's and such with you in private and with Skip if needed because it feels like those who recognize his ridiculous behavior would rather lose the chance to talk to me on this site rather than take the time and care enough to speak up.

 

Thank you for your well thought out replies, as I always say to you..Best wishes, on all your endeavors, be they on the inside, or the outside.

 

really? you think so? Wouldn't have guessed by the 3/4 naked picture of you all writhing in your sig pic. You obviously want to be thought of as pretty over smart, eh?

 

I am going to close this thread. It has gotten way off topic. Lynsey, I can't tell someone to just stop replying to someone else's threads, as long as they aren't being assaultive. I don't see any reason for bans, at the moment at all. So, let's all take a deep breathe, chill out, and stop this. Okay?

andrs, if Lynsey wants to be left alone, could you just leave it, Okay? No big problem, I would think.