why do people do this

you spent 20 years with him. it would seem to me that you will have some sort of feelings for him for a while.

I've had friends split and one starts dating but I never told the other. I don't see it as any of my business

 

Yes yes, I dont want to know... he kinda makes a play for me every few months though

I think he thinks I'm a rainy day pussy.

NOT !

 

It's all a matter of sizing yourself up to the other person they're dating. I had feelings like these when I was younger, but when you get a little older and wiser you tend to see it for what it is and just ignore it.

 

I'm pretty fucking old. Not wise ... old and jealous for nothing...

 

I can kinda understand his thinking you're a hottie

 

thank you but Im an orangutan

 

Hello,

yepp, but according to your avatar you have a cute podgy nose .

Regards
Gyro

 

I Think The Real Question Here Is, Why Is She Wasting Her Life On "Fakebook"..?.

I'm Not On It, But From What I Have Read It Is Just Like "Gaydar"..........

........Breaks Up More Relationships And Friendships Than It Creates....



Cheers Glen.

 

Very true. You can still be friendly whilst at the same time, not trusting anyone. I am very friendly, but also extremely distrusting. You're right, always carrying a bit of caution will prevent you from being totally shocked if a "friend" does do something bad to you. Trusting anyone 100% is a mistake really.

 

Feel lucky that you at least know whats going on. Its really bad if it happens while your at work and your completely un-aware. Its REALLY bad if it happens while your at work and completely un-aware for 3 months after it happens. At least you have someone willing to tell you the truth, thank that person. Leave the person who cheated, they can no longer be trusted with anything you have to give.

 

People who do that are miserable themselves and love to spread the misery around. Makes them feel better.

Best revenge is to smile at them, drives them crazy to know you are happy.

 

ok so was she playing dumb or really thinking it wouldnt bother me? cause she apologized ...