Why do I want to watch my wife fuck another guy?

Just about to start letting my wife do other guys. At first she'll be out alone with a hotel room, then come home and tell me about the guy she picked up and fucked.
Got to say I find the whole thing incredibly sexy and get hard just thinking about it. For me though the guy has to be anonymous with no second visit. I feel better about the chances of her getting romantically involved. And it'll be condoms all the way. Would love her to take a load from another guy but the anonymous bit just doesn't allow for that.
When we have sex together just now this is our shared fantasy....we'll see how she gets on with her first time picking up a guy !

 

Je veux voir mon chum coucher avec un autre gars !!!

 

Ok MarieClare I had to google translate that, but why would you wish to see your boyfriend with another man ? What would turn you on about it ?

 

will you take this man as your lawful wedded husband?, to live together in the estate of matrimony? Will you love him, honor him, comfort him, and keep him in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to him as long as you both shall live?

you are people are disgusting hypocrites, worse than animals. I have no idea what cesspool you crawled from but I hope any of your wives who fuck other men get pregnant by them, get STDs from them and then leave you for them.

you don't have any clue about what being husband and wife mean.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=ftjEcrrf7r0

 

I guess it's not your thing then ! But why the rant, no-one asked you to come here and spout off, you tit head !

 

it's a forum. anyone can express their opinion if they play by the rules. these posts crop up like a fungus and I plan to rant on every one of them.

men who share their wives disgust me. women who need to have more than one sex partner at a time disgust me.

 

Je ne comprends pas la raison. Mais les hommes bisexuels me plaisent beacoup. bref c'est mon truc.

 

fx20736 are you a spy from the religious right? This is called hipforums, not I-want-to- force-my-strict-conservative-and-oppressive-standards-on-everybody-else-without-any-consideration-for-diverse-viewpoints-forum. Why would you come on a forum like this to post such rants? Part of why I embraced the hippies back in the late 60's is because of their non-judgemental embracing of individuality. I am on this form because I am a hippy.

Why don't you read the latest issue of Psychology Today to see what science has to say about such things. The sharing of spouses is as old as the institution of marriage for many reasons, including the fact that it is true to our nature. I have spent time with indigenous people where such practices are a healthy part of the community, and the cohesion of the family within the tribe. On the other hand, if you are a fundamentalist Christian, then you may not be interested in what science has to say, since the religious right has embraced an Anti-Science philosophy that seems to believe such harebrained things as that God has made a vagina that shuts down during rape to prevent pregnancy.

But then if you insist on coming to such posts and ranting about such things---then there is clearly another problem here---not with us, but with you. If you disagreed with this kind of thing then the normal reaction would be to distance yourself from it, and to not read such forums. Instead, you do read it, and it makes you angry.

Maybe you aren’t some religious rightwing nut. Maybe you’re just a newlywed who is madly in love with your new husband and cannot understand anything other than the dominant strict definition of marriage. BUT DO YOU UNDERSTAND WHY IT MAKES YOU ANGRY? Do you understand why you are compelled to read it? If you answer that it is because it is wrong and disgusting, or that it is in the Bible, or some other reactionary excuse---then you don’t really understand. If something truly angers you---really gets your blood boiling---then it is because it is hitting on an element that you have suppressed into your shadow.

Your shadow is that part of you that is buried in your subconscious. As you go through life, you do things, think things, and be things that your ego, (which tries to define who you are based on your ego-ideal) decides are wrong---it then buries it into the shadow. These things are part of who we truly are----but we, which is really just our ego (and not or true whole self)---denies them. And the ego tries its best to make you believe that ‘this is not you.’ But it is---maybe not physically cheating on your husband, or doing a threesome----but if this makes you angry---your subconscious ties it into some kind of sexual hang-up that is part of your shadow. This is true for every human----if you come across something that makes you really angry, then you are dealing with a shadow element. The deeper we repress such elements, the more anger-filled, violent, and serious they become.

If this makes you angry---then what is the problem within you? It can be scary to face a shadow element---but once you work through it----you will be far more adjusted and happy in life. You will be more true to yourself. It doesn’t mean that you will start doing the things we do---but you will grow sexually for it, which will surely make you and your partner happier.

My wife comes from a culture where adultery is more than common, it is the way things are. After many years of faithful marriage, this became a very satisfying way to save our marriage, and allow it to grow. We still love each other as much as when we first married. We have a very healthy and satisfying relationship—far more satisfying than the years before we started. Statistically 50% of American women have confessed to being unfaithful to a partner. This includes plenty of bible-toting god-fearing Christian women. Plenty of Christian men have been caught in adulterous affairs. In the prudent sexually oppresive culture of the Victorian times, prostitution was more a part of society than it is today. And adultery was just as rampant. Unfaithfulness implies non-truthfulness. I do not consider my wife unfaithful when we do everything with total honesty, and mutual consent. Neither one of us coerced the other into it. We are happy, in love, and well-fulfilled. So what right do you have to decide it is wrong. We don’t have a problem.

 

OK----fx20736 I am guilty of assuming you were a girl---I apologize---I looked at your profile and it didn't indicate what you were. You reminded me of a few judgemental judgemental girls I have dealt with (and I was influenced by the word 'tithead' in one of the first responses to your rant). After I posted, I looked over a few of your other posts----and realized my mistake. But this does not change anything about my post, other than to change the word husband for wife.

 

Troll.

 

I don't know the whys or wherefores, but I'd love to make it a reality and put some of my jizz inside your wife's pussy bareback.

Edit: Oopsie. The date :biggrin:

 

Don't you want to be the other guy?

 

hm ... i don't think you will have a shortage of male candidates ... not sure where the difficulty of making it happen lies ... just choose the one you like most and go with it


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Personally I loved every minute of watching my wife with another man. She was in control of who and what happened. I watched and participated at times but never directed her in any way shape or form. She is not a submissive woman. More likely dominatix though she doesn't like the games. Just give her a hard cock and a good ramming and she's happy. Ditch the foreplay etc lol

Seriously though, on the original topic, watching my wife was beautifully sexy. She was in her element and having a great time. It will always be one sided though as she is insecure and couldn't bear the thought of me and another woman. I accept this and am happy to watch her and participate.

 

I thought it was just me that enjoyed seeing my wife have sex with someone else( another man) or woman come to it but I love it so much but can't always find the right way to suggest it. The first time we were both drunk and I was told I should organise it, which was a shock, the second time was with my same mate and it was just great but now my wife to be is pregnant I still want to share her but don't know how. I think she feels its wrong but of you are all for it it has to be ok. I love my wife and respect her more than anything. Am I wrong ???

 

Blue64 I am in the exact same scenario as yourself but I have a sneaky suspicion my wife would play with another girl, although I'd still find it a bigger turn on watching her with another man

 

Okay I won't lie - the thought of my woman having sex with other men is a huge turn on. Especially if they go bareback and he cums in her pussy, so that I can get sloppy seconds. But our relationship is still way too fresh to be considering something like that.

 

My wife also would probably do another girl in the right circumstances. She's hinted as much. Problem is she would be afraid I was watching the other woman and liking her more. If she thought the other woman's body wasn't as nice or she was ugly then not a problem but then my wife wouldn't be interested in a woman she thought was ugly lol. I would think the girl would have to be okay looking (not gorgeous) and skinny. I prefer a nice bottom and tits over skinny. Otherwise she would only do it alone or with a man other than me (like maybe another couple) and I wouldn't say no but wouldn't like another man watching my wife doing something that I would never get to see. That's what would make me jealous lol.

 

When you're both ready go for it and enjoy. I had sloppy seconds and it was very sexy in a dirty dirty way heh. I think she had four cum loads during the day so she was dripping for a while.

 

Yes, I can only imagine how nice it must feel to slide in a freshly cum filled pussy, because it's so hot to even have your own sloppy seconds if you go for another round and she is still full of your slimy cum. And her sluttiness in itself is a huge turn on, to be willing to take loads from multiple guys.

 

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