Why do guys go cold afterwards?

hehe...i myself am a girl and i don't always feel the need to cuddle in the afterglow. me and my fiance' usually do because we are so in love with each other...then we usually want a shower because we are sticky and wet...hehe.

someone said something about a woman turning into a motormouth after sex. that thought cracked me up because i actually am a very talkative person, but i feel almost silenced after sex. maybe some people get chatty after fucking because it wakes something up in their minds. if your lady chatting with you after sex annoys you so, buy her a journal and tell her to write her thoughts down.

and it's not just chicks who get all chatty...a few years ago i was dating a dude who would talk my fucking ear off and would NEVER shut up, not even DURING sex. he was a talker, now.