Why cant attractive girls get dates?

i went to send u a pm... but its says ur inbox is full

 

hey about the whole "why cant i get a date thing". I was thinking maybe ur just so damn beautiful that guys just want to get down on u? but heck i'd go out with u if i kenw u u seem nice. u work in the big brothers and big sisters of canada....so that means ur canadian? cool im canadian too (if ur answer is yes).

 

I'm sorry if youre upset

I tried stickin up for you and got torn to shreds

I see your point

Guys think that you must want to have sex because of the way you look, like no one is interested to get to know you because they would rather just have you shut up and drip off them like custard. People think that there is nothing to get to know because they assumethat because you are pretty that you must have no brain, which is a complete load of shit!

I'm so sorry chicky! Dont feel bad

 

I deleted some messages and sent you a pm, so it should be working now

 

i don't really know you, so i don't mean to be rude.. but i think maybe if you want good guys you shouldn't tell them you don't mind sharing them with the girl they like. or telling them you're going to go on a trip to a guys house you've never met in a whole other country to sleep with him. ...or you know, hitting on my boyfriend. that would be nice. he's mine. and he's too young for you anyways.


and i've had a guy friend ask me for sex. its not that bad of an experience. damn, just say no and move on with life. guys are horny idiots. a lot of them would ask even if you were ugly as shit. they want your vagina.. and as far as i know, that looks like every other girls.

 

Not all guys are horny idiots, btw. And takemenow, i think you are cool as hell, and really enjoy taslking to you, cause you are a nice person. I do think you are attractive, but that doesn't factor in as much as the person you are inside does. You rock girl!

 

I think I have what you need girl. -hands her a mirror- Theyre. Stare at yourself all day and feel better. When you ask that kind of shallow question, why would you be upset over shallow responses? Your being a damn pychic vamp. You say one thing to hear the other. You claim your sorry for how you look? BULLSHIT. Then you say you wanted honest input. More bullshit. You wanted compliments to boost your ego. Then you said you dont see anything wrong with taking pride in how you look which automaticlly cancels out your first statment. If you want to find a guy that will be with you longer than 2 days without sex then stop wearing sexy clothes. You dont have to wear skin tight jeans that are designed so that when you sit down your thong is exposed to the world. You also dont need to wear designer label all the time and perhaps you should go off of what the person says or does before aproaching them instead of saying to yourself "Aww hes cute."
I'm so fucking sick of a girl whos cute and knows she is, crying and whining because she had A bad experience. Then all her friends come and comfort her telling her that the guy is an asshole yatta yatta. Normally she'll even throw in a "I feel so ugly." Somewhere and have her friends immediatlly come back with "Ohhhh no your not." Your friend asked to have sex with you? Deal with it like a grown up for chri-sakes. Say either "Ok lets fuck" or say "I don't think of you this way, why in gods name would you ask me that" The fact that your 3 years older than me and acting like girls in my high school (And I'm the only senior in most of my classes I might add) is highly distressing dont you think? The only one who can change what people think about you is you, Duh. It has nothing to do with your hair, your face, or your body, but what you do, say, and how you act as well as what you wear. If you dont want guys going for sex then stopped sending them signals. A normal person can say "You know... This keeps happening... Maybe its something I'm doing." Sadly though, this is rarely the case. Instead of fixing the problem you decided to seek support and comfort from someone to make yourself feel better instead of actually being better. You ran to hollow comfort too I might add as we all know that when people on this board fish for compliments, they tend to get more than a few bites. You need to admit to yourself, not me or anyone else here, that you just wanted an ego boost and you were wrong to do so. It wont make one shread of difference to me cause I'm not a part of your life. If you really want to change the results you get from guys, then you need to change yourself. You can't possiblly think that its the guys fault because he wants to have sex with you if your tits are in his face. Its your fault not theirs. They are only following the impulses you are giving them. Its not a matter of intimidation or looks or sex apeall. Its who you are and what you choose. Its kinda easy to get when you act like an adult and think about it instead of crying about it.

 

Thanks for everyones input. it was much appeciated the good and the bad. and ur right i shouldbt have posted it.i was having a bad week and was fishing. thanks for ur resposes both good and bad.. but i dotn need anymore anwers and i think its time to let this thread die and move on to diffrent things.

thanks again

 

lol no thanks im good

 

Thanks and its ok. i think alot of things in this world get fucked up on misunderstandings so no worries. and thank you for saying im beautiful

 

well if i ever feel like being married......lol and no i prolly wont post more not even sure if i should have posted the frist ones lol

 

maybe one day if ur really nice

 

i know you said you dont want anymore posts BUT thats probably because this thread did not work out like you were hoping it to which proves that you were fishing for complimants.

I would say you get guys only looking for sex because that is the type of guys you attract.

Your name is Takemenow which is sexual
Your posing like a playboy model which is very sexual
your clothes maybe just be jeans and a Tshrit but your showing your waist which is sexual
Your hair and make up are done in a style that is sexual
Your last pic was very sexual (i maybe be confusing this with someone elses)

altough overall i think you seem like very nice person with the same insecure problems as alot of others

 

What do you wanna bet if we move her hair its a V neck to and we see boobs?

 

a few but i'll let u know when u got enough

 

it is a v neck but im wearing a white tank underneiith so i bet ud see nothing

 

Blah: I'm just running off my rant. These problems could all be fixed and are her own fault.

Takemenow: And you wear it all the time with that shirt? You always make sure you cover your boobies right?

 

y are we still doing this...thank you for ur input i can dress myself though im over my issue i was happing and said iwas sorry for posting it...so leave it alone

 

Well, dress how you want to dress. Some guys will come and want sex after a few days, but you don't have to give it to them. If that's all they are after and you don't want to give it, then don't, and they will leave. But did you really want them around anyways?