anyone know why both paragraphing and post editing are disabled in this forum? edit: they aren't, it was just my computer :blush5:
For some guys dating is a contest, who can get most/best looking girl. Some its because they feel as if they have something to prove. Others are just simply lonely without a girl and feel like something is missing without one by their side. There are good guys out there, they just don't present themselves as often because there isn't as many of them as there are pricks with something to prove. Those guys who act differently around their friends, do so because they are insecure. If your boyfriend can apparently open himself up to you, then show a different side around his friends AND brag about getting with you when he didn't, sounds like its about time you went window shopping and see if you cant find someone who will treat you with respect.
Yep guys can be dicks, but so can we women. Just have to keep going, there are good guys out there. I doubt many, but a few
If girls want guys to act like dicks than why would we complain when they act in this way?! I know there are more forms i just chose to use their!
You will find that most people, regardless of gender are dicks... and the ones who aren't are usually called assholes because they won't change their story or opinion to suit that majority. As for the original reason you posted... be yourself, and be proud of it. When you meet someone who acts the way that guy did, walk away, it isn't worth the stress. The right person (or persons) for you will come along.
I don't have enough information. Why are you hanging out with guys who want to fuck you if you're not fucking them? Why not just hang out with girls or guys who are not interested in you?
fuck if i know, girls are weird. if girls didn't want guys to act like dicks then why would they constantly reward dickish acting guys with sex while punishing all other guys with stories about said sex?
well 1st of all not all guys are like that!! I to have been around this type of trash!! Do what i have done just find you some freinds that you can trust and roll on. While there are lot of people like this some people are still brought up with some manners
^^ good point- girls love assholes- and lets face it- girls are shit heads too- we just have to learn to co-exist find the right one yo- stay away from them dickheads
I've always thought of it as a guy claiming his property. And when he does that shit, I'm out the door like no ones business. All that is, is insecurities. Which brings so many unnecessary problems to the table. Or he probably just thought you were easy. And that sooner or later he was gunna have sex with you any way. But most likely the first one.
Young girls are drawn to guys who socially dominate other guys. This diminishes over time, as we learn what is really important in life. Being treated well by men is more important to middle-aged women.
Sadly that is only true in some cases.... Some people spend their whole lives chasing after (or letting themselves be caught by) the wrong people. I think a lot of it comes from the way we start out life in our societies. As in being lumped together with a bunch of people our own age with few influences making it past the 'peer pressure'. When most of our influences as kids come from people our own age (who don't know anymore about life then we do), or from sources like MTV, instead of from a well balanced mix of experiences, this is what happens.