Because of that situation, do you find yourself seeking the attention of men in a sort of unhealthy manner?
No. I'm a sexual person by nature, but I don't HAVE to have the attention of a male. I don't persue older guys. I don't need a warped father-figure. I've gotten over any issues I had with each of these men. I hold a bit of resentment towards #2, but that's to be expected after the childhood I've had. I admit that my sexual behavior is a bit unorthodox to most, but it's never been unhealthy. Holly
Hey! Shroom twat! I wasn't accusing any one of anything. It was a question that I always had in the back of my mind with regards to children who have grown up with multiple father figures. No need to become defensive over non'offensive questions or statements. Like I said, I'm turning over a new leaf. P.S. Thanks for your honesty Hippy!
my dad is called peter. he died when i was eight - neither me nor my mother have gotten over it. i have a gross stepdad called james,who has bullied me my whole life for looking like my dad. my dad used to have long auburn hair all the way down to his ass and he used to wear green velvet suits. he was a hippy and was the image of ian anderson from jethro tull, they were also his favourite band, as they are mine. peace morna
wanna know whats weird about my father situation? as i said before I have a birth father and a Step-father. I never met my birth-father, and my step dad came into my life when i was two. now my step dad has been out of my life for two years and my birth-father has entered my life. kinda odd how that works out eh!
my dad is an ex-hippie now biker lame ass! he never calls, and i only see him at Christmas and sometimes at Smilefest. The only up-side is him and his girlfriend compete to see who can give me more money so I am usually $300 richer on Christmas day when I get to grammas!..it's sad, we used to go to concerts together every weekend, but his old lady don't like me too much or something so i never see him!
My daddy is a Mr. Josef (Pepa, Pepik..) he's a good man, but sometimes, I don't understand him, and he doesn't to me.. he's for 40 years older than me.. so.. But HE'S GREAT!
i have to say that since i've never really had a good "father experience" and so many people i know havn't either, that i'm not really sure what fathers are for once a woman is pregnant. i mean sure they can bring in money but is that really enough reason to keep them around? and i know this is gonna sound selfish or childish or whatever but in all honesty when i have kids I don't see a man in the picture, i can't wrap my brain around the idea of it. my birth father was an imaginary figure (basically) till last summer, so it was just mom and i till i was three when she married my step-dad. and before they got married was the best time of my life, i'm not bashing my step-dad or anything but i just seems like guys ruin things when it comes to kids.
I think i get my slowness and such from my dad.. I love my dad and think the world of him...he made me who i am today..Thanks dad
errrr someone who I have had to restrain myself not to let have someone else kill him for me when I had the offer. But I have a great grandpa who I lived with for a year while my mom was away at school and stayed with at night a lot while my mom was in class and always took me to aerospace museums and care bears movies and would let me put my grandmas curlers in his hair. yep I love him