Who was your first time with?

the girl that knew i was gay b4 neone else she teased me for a long time and finnally i stayed the night at her place. she is my age and it was a one night stand now she is back with her ex like nothing happened but i knew from then on that i love women. i had just turned 17 it was amazing because i wanted her so bad and i am still not entirely over her. if she ever wanted to fool around i would beright there in a red hot second!

 

we were 18, me and my friend, in my old station wagon, it was good.. it was oral and it was good!

 

twas my current girlfriend, it was histerically awful on my behalf, I was 15... yea it got better

 

the first time.....ur....it was 14 and with my roommates....

i lived with some classmates at that time and all of us just liked to be naked when we r in the domitary....and we all want to have some excite experiments and we started out to have sex....

but the feeling just soso...but there were always many bodies and cocks to be tasted...haha....

 

OMG lol your so closed minded.
Also, you could be gay its just that you sheild your self with alot of homophobia.

 

my first time was just after my 18th birthday. the guy i was with lied and told me he was in the same position as me, a slightly confused virgin who'd just come out to his family. in hindsight i must've been such an easy target i was so desperate for someone to love me. he romanced me and made me feel loved and wanted and i really thought i'd found someone special.

until i had sex with him. he was violent, he made no effort to pleasure me whatsoever and it was extremely painful. he made me feel like it was my fault because i didn't know what i was doing and i wasted my time hoping he'd change back into the man he'd pretended to be before. he took great pleasure in causing me pain during sex and forced me to do things but i was scared of him so i agreed.
i can't believe i was stupid enough to believe his lies and stick with him for as long as i did.
so basically my first time was awful.

my first time with my current boyfriend was a totally different story though

 

Yeah my first time was kinda awful too. I was underage and at a gay bar with a friend. I got very drunk as I was not used to drinking and my friend told me that he was okay and that he wanted to take me home. I went with him. He was in his early twenties. The alcohol made me sick on the way home and he had to pull over. I got out and puked. He got out and came around and told me to get back in the car "I'm not a baby-sitter, I brought you home to trick" He took me to his house and had his way with me. It was very painful--physically. He was a creep.

After that, and still underage, I met a wonderful young man who was a disc jockey at an fm rock station. He was very cool and we had a lot of fun every time we hooked up (four or five times over a year or so) So I think of him as my first encounter that meant something. He was a great guy and he never expected or asked me to do anything that I didn't want to do.

That was a long time ago. Times have changed. To any young people reading this, I would strongly suggest sticking with people your own age. And never put yourself in a vulnerable position like i did with that creep.

 

First gay experience?

Was with my babysitter's son. I think I was about 7 or 8. We watched porn together,he made me stroke him off. Basically any kind of first time homo experience was with him. He was also about 4 or 5 years older than me.

After that is when I started getting down with myself: masturbating a lot,began fingering myself or penetrating myelf with pens & the like.

Then I started I kind of introduced it to my cousin about 5 years later. I sucked his cock & it was the first time I had an actual cock inside me. I fucking loved it. My cousin,well he was just horny & just liked having his cock tended to. He did let me attempt to fuck him but he was hairy & to this day turned me off from man-butt.

However,I still love women & will take female over male any day of the week. I just happen to like a big cock on occasion.

 

my first time was great, she was very intense and i loved it

 

My first kiss with a guy was in the back of Bristol Ten Pin haha in the rain, much better then you would think, I was 11.

 

OH and my first "time" was in the Bathroom at Lake Compounce, with the same guy, a year later

 

I was 12 and I picked him up (he was like 14) on a nude beach. That night, I smuggled him into our house and fucked him wickedly. He loved it. I did, too. Nope, we did not fall in love and there was no romance but sex was awesome.

KD

 

Wow, I now feel so very very conservative. I didn't do anal til I was 19, didn't even kiss a guy (or a girl) until I was 17. First vaguely sexual thing was when I was 17, a guy who was sat opposite me on a bus, we kinda flirted just using eye contact and then when it came to his stop I really wanted to get off but my heart was going so fast and I just couldn't do it. So I went back to the bus depot the same time the following week, waited about an hour just in case he showed up, he recognised me and we chatted a bit, went back to his and just kinda fumbled around a bit, kissed and cuddled and stuff. A little while after that we got a bit more physical and yadda yadda yadda.

I like telling this story, as it's the only even-vaguely-romantic thing that has ever happened to me.

 

I was going on 16, in high school, and he was 20, in college. He was my first kiss, my first everything. He wasn't at the point in his life where he wanted a relationship which I wanted, so it turned out to be a one time thing. He moved across the US shortly after when he graduated. That was about 6 years ago, and I haven't seen him since. He contacted me a few days ago and he's coming back here to visit in two weeks and wants to hang out. We've talked once in the past 6 years and he apologized for what happened and how things turned out.

Maybe this will be closure.

 

I was nine, His House, Its was fun, although it was all licking and We were kinda confused lol.

 

My first time was with one of my best (heterosexual) friends when we were both tripping on Dextromethorphan. It's obvious that he's bisexual but he likes girls more and just doesn't want to be with guys, though he's attracted to them. We're REALLY close friends so apparently it was a lot for him to handle and think about on his first DXM trip.



It kind of sucked... neither of us had orgasms, what with the tussin' making it impossible to achieve one, or even get hard for that matter.

 

A lot's happened since I replied to this in February of last year. heh

This past October I had a boyfriend that I met at a party. We hung out a bunch of times, then one night we went out for sushi, then hung out at the pier in Portland. We ended up making out there under the moonlight (very romantic). After that, we went back to his dorm (he's a freshman in college, I'm 17) and fooled around and yeah... that was fun.

Hah, when we were kissing on the pier, this guy and his wife, both of whom were in their mid-50's or something walked up by us... and the guy said, "you guys aren't gonna catch any fish like thaaaat..." It was hilarious.

 

My first time was back in high school in the English wing year was 1982 maybe 1981. I still think of him from time to time. Wondered what has happened to him.

And I have seen many of my female straight friends ask about their first times. I guess antigay never had a first time....lol. other then maybe his palm.

 

oops ooops hahaha

 

Interestingly enough.. I was 24.. and i met him here on hipforums.... That was my first gay experience.

My first hetero experience, I think I was 17 or 18