Where/How to have sex...

20 years old and still at home bitching about parents? Get real! MOVE OUT!

 

Hey! Many 20 year olds still live at home. It is not a bad thing. Be encouraging, not confrontational. (As was advised by the league.)

By the way, do they still have streets in San Francisco?

 

If you really must do it in her room, plan carefully ahead of time. Try to soundproof the room as much as possible (without turning it into a recording studio). Carpets will absorb sounds as they hit the floor. A towel jammed against the foot of her door will not fully muffle the sounds of your passion but it will at least help prevent them from fully escaping under it. Get fully under the sheets; even your heads must be covered. The point is you have to try to minimize the noise as much as you can. Take note of anything that will make enough noise to give you away. Does her bed squeak? Then vigorous lovemaking as well as sexual positions that are likely to violently rock the bed should be avoided. Better try spooning on your sides and thrusting gently. She should muffle her sounds with a pillow or the mattress. DO NOT ATTEMPT TO DO IT FOR HER OR YOU MIGHT END UP SUFFOCATING HER. Turn on the music loud enough to drown out any sounds of lovemaking (but not loud enough to wake her parents or the baby!) and if possible place the speakers near and pointing towards the door or the wall nearest to the baby's room.

She really needs to learn to control her moans. It's not easy but it can be done. My girlfriend can be really loud (as can I) when she's sure there's no one around to hear her but she's able to control herself when we're doing it in her apartment (the walls are really thin).

 

Yes, I'm 20 and I live at home. I don't see whats so weird about that. I'm at college, and about 90% of the people here live at home too. Its not that strange... I'm going to move out and live with her somewhere when we graduate in a year and a half.

And we can't do anything outside because we live in the midwest, and if you haven't noticed, its a little freaking cold. hahahaha

So far, we've still just done things in her room, and tried to be as quiet as possible, which does kinda take away from it a little bit... plus, she's less up to doing things because she's so nervous about someone hearing, so I don't get it that often at all... Her bed doesn't squeak really, no, but if I go at it a little hard, which she seems to REALLY like, then the bed will make some noise, yes. Man, I'm totally stumped on this one....

 

Loud music should do it for you two.

 

girls love it when you cover their mouth while having sex, give that a try

 

I highly doubt thats true for my g/f....

 

oh really, she has a bunch of sexual hangups?

that sucks

 

Yea...she's not into me dominating and stuff... she likes to be in charge. lol

 

oh well, you can teach her things I'm sure

some girls need to be shown how to have good sex

 

Yeah, that'd probably turn me on. So long as I could still breathe and all.

 

thats because you aren't a timid girl who is bad at sex and insecure

 

so she is bad at sex, but still likes to be in charge....sounds fun

you know, you don't have to marry the first girl you have sex with

 

and I find it funny that she's the one with experience, and I was the virgin....

 

No...but I do want to marry the girl who I find to be "the one" for me, and she definetly is

 

how could you possibly know that?!

she is awful at sex and insecure...have a nice life

 

a lot of times virgins are better, simply because they're willing ot learn. It's all new to them, they aren't set in any routines.

My first lover was one of my best. Not -the- best, but he was pretty damn good. We were new to everything together, so we spent the whole time exploring and learning. We were open to new things.

 

A lot of people are "vocal" but sometimes you have to shut your mouth or get caught.
Try having your kids in the next room...pfft.

 

I'm not bragging at all, please don't take it as that, but my g/f is a very brutally honest person (if I sucked, she'd tell me) and she's told me that I'm the best. I dunno, I guess I just found that hard to believe because I'm just not experienced at all. But I definetly now agree with what you said there, I AM very open and willing to learn things. But, I just can't see that ending after a certain time... I've always been a very eager person..

 

mate you have 2 options as i see it.

1) Find a friends house you can "use"
2) get used to being quiet.