Where are all the "normal" females????

I don't have any of the problems you listed. I've been through stuff though. You generally have to go through stuff before you have any chance of being what you call normal. Males do, too. Men are more likely to have drink or drug problems or problems with anger or violence, but they can also experience all the things you listed. People are learning all the time.

 

regarding the large relationships i have had so far:

- one had eating issues
- one had anger issues
- one was bipolar
- i was perfect.

 

Yes, there are normal girls around. They're with the normal guys. Those are the couples you see in the coffee shop just sitting there drinking their coffee not saying a word to each other. They're perfectly happy, because they have no idea what real life is actually about.

 

I prefer women who are a little "off". They're more fun. Normal is kinda boring after a few months. My problem is I attract very selfish women... so far. I'm hoping that changes.

 

take that neodude circa 2008!

 

Healthy, happy, in shape, intelligent women are out living their lives, maybe with the right person, or flying solo, but it doesn't matter too much either way.

 

I am anything but normal...but I have come to terms with it. Those of us who are crazy cant help it anyway.

 

Why you call yourself crazy?

 

I think a lot of girls fake the crazy thing for the attention. Then again, that in itself is pretty crazy.

 

you can lead a whore to water

but you can't make her drink.

 

it's the fake dumb act i don't like.

 

here there everywhere

 

obviously not hanging out with you haha

 

What is normal in this day in age man? I've dated a healthy number of girls and none have been "normal". They all had little quirks but then do I want one of those girls that is a puppet? Nope.

I've never had a bad ending to any of them, and I never left them because of their quirks. The only reason they don't work out is because we just realize we aren't compatible in one way or another. Usually its me because I have strong ideas and motives and I need to know the girl is with me in those. I won't have an incompatible relationship like my parents. I think I'm actually more attracted to girls with some problems. I know I have my own too.

 

There no such thing as a normal female these days

 

I can't help thinking that this kind of overreaction will only serve to reinforce the guy's opinion...

 

Women don't ask for these problems. Usually it comes from being treated badly in a past relationship, and it's not always their fault. Maybe you're not normal.

However, try being yourself and meeting someone on your own. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places.

 

Where are all the "normal" females????
Like I said before, they're all looking for normal males, of course!

 

Most of the time I am an emotional roller coaster....who knows what kind of mood I am going to be in at any given moment. Sometimes when my anxiety is high I will act out and I wont even recognize myself...Its scary sometimes.
Most of the time I don't even have a reason for feeling the way I do, so I blame it on anything close.

but I get help for it...I'm chemically imbalanced...therefore I am crazy and cant help it.
Does that explain it?

 

Looks like I had a gay moment there. Ooops! :biggrin: