When will guys learn?

My wife was at a Gyno visit. With her feet in the stirups talking to her doctor who is a woman. During the visit they discussed orgasms. My wife told the doc that I was the best girlfriend she ever had. The doc is gay and my wife said the doc laughed her ass off and said good for you because she's been told guys usually don't do very well.

 

I learned my pussy licking (and cock sucking) skills from listening to my partner. A few were self confident enough to tell me how they liked their pussy eaten (or cock sucked) but most hints were more subtle, such as moans or giggles. First, you have to love eating pussy or sucking cocks. Then you learn the moves all women (or men) like. Finally, you experiment to find out what turns on your partner at the time. As the oral stimulation continues, concentrate on their favorite action and keep it up until they cum.

After your partner cums, continue to gently lick her pussy, going easy on her clit, until she comes back from dreamland. Keep the man's cock in your mouth, playing gently around the head with your tongue, occasionally sucking lightly until he goes soft and all the flavor is gone.

Practice often with your only goal is giving your partner pleasure. Don't think about what you will receive in return. Do it because you like it and the only pressure you expect is making her or him cum. If your partner likes what you do, they will find a way to show their appreciation.

 

For the ladies .............. in my experience, most of you ladies are afraid to TELL the guy what trips your triggers. All women are different in what sets them on fire - some like soft licking, others hard, vigorous licking and sucking ......... etc. We guys aren't mind readers!! Don't be afraid of hurting our feelings - we WANT to pleasure you to the fullest extent!! If any guy gets so butt-hurt and "crushed" if a lady guides him in how to eat her ..... it's time to find a new guy. And I'm a guy who LOVES to orally pleasure & lick a lady to multiple orgasms.

Please realize that what a guy find works for another lady ..... may not work for you - so don't be afraid to gently guide your guy!!! TELL him what you like. I have a feeling MOST guys will happily do as you ask.

 

In my experience just about every girl has a different way they like to be licked. The best thing when being licked is to become a director. Don't be afraid to guide the licker.

 

Also - same girl can want it differently at different times.

 

The only thing a guy needs to know is every women, is different, so you have to pay attention to her reactions, sometimes even ask: "do you like that, how about this, you like my tongue here or here....."
Whenever I had a girl tell me I ate her pussy better than anyone else, it was just the luck of the draw that what I did matched up to what worked for her.
Then a week later withe some of these girls same technique, different reaction, so I have to try something different until I get it right.

 

“To eat pussy properly?

Honestly... apart from the couple of true masters that I have met, in my considerable experience (at least I like to think it is) (and it is ) ... it is always a trifle disappointing. That you have to BERRY your face in the pussy? That you have to moisten and suck, and not just tickle?

I've learned giving head from a prostitute. Because I wanted to be the best. How come guys, no matter how deep they love, no matter how good they are in bed otherwise, just cannot learn eating pussy?!

Honestly, so frustrating...”

But seriously…BERRIES?

 

I find most ladies are less frustrated when a man uses a banana smoothie

 

Lol...true...i love going down and i do take my time and making sure she cums...i wa 18 when i was with a 55 year old women who sat on my face and told me what to do

 

So true....alot of my pleasure now is from the womans pleasure

 

I was once with a woman who was in a relationship for 6 years a d the guy refused to go down on her....i spent a very pleasurable 2 hours between her legs

 

Eating pussy involves a variety of techniques. I start with a light, quick circular flittering of my tongue around the hood of the clit, occasionally hitting the clit itself. I vary that with an orbital type licking around her vulva with a fair amount of pressure. (if you can’t cover the whole of her vulva, there’s not much point). I stiffen my tongue and dart it in and out, then take some time to slowly cover the folds of her skin. With women it is often that you don’t miss anything, that you slow down and appreciate the whole of her pussy.

I only go down on one woman these days but in my past, I learned that technique, pressure and variety are common. What is specific is the amount of which a particular woman wants. Darting your stiff tongue in and out, lightly sucking on her labia, teasing her clit are all skills that have variance within them. Know all of them and she will tell you what she craves in words, hums or growls.

And don’t forget her anus, it needs attention also, don't forget that little bundle of nerves.
Use your fingers as a support especially hitting that spongy g-spot while you work her clit (but go gently there, it’s intense for her)

 

I can, I guess. My wife says I am the best girlfriend she has ever had. She actually told her Gyno that.

 

Well then I’ve always learned Not hard not fast but I can learn. Practice needed is all.

 

Being adept at eating pussy is the same as being adept at sucking cock. If you truly love what you are doing then you are going to excel at it. During puberty I was schooled by some older "women" and learned very early to listen to and react to the woman that I am eating. I learned that I LOVED eating pussy. I don't just eat pussy, I make love to and worship her pussy with my mouth and tongue. I love eating pussy so much that I have actually achieved orgasm just from eating pussy. The more pleasure I am giving my woman the more pleasure it gives me and the more aroused I get!!!