oh i know what you mean. i'm familiar with the glory that can be the quicky. but i prefer sex with someone i care about, and i haven't gotten laid in a very long time, so that more or less colors what i'd expect. i'd hope that we could just relax together for a while after, regardless of time of day. i'm perfectly aware that it doesnt always need to happen that way though.... still, though, the idea of going from fucking to "alright hon i'm gonna go talk on the forums" is curious to me
i've heard it's great for making one feel a lot better i've never had a problem with agreeing to that, personally. but a lot of guys seem grossed out by it for whatever reason.
lol, im sure you are familiar with it....and if that's a genuine response than you would also know that it's not a matter of caring about a person, its a matter of we spend the entire day together (as with a lot of days) and don't have to jump through all the hoops that somehow make your sex life better than mine.... i sleep with the man every single night, i eat breakfast and dinner with him every single day...you'll have to PLEASE excuse me nesta (and i really mean please) if i dont feel its neccesary to lay there for hours after the deed is done, especially in the middle of the day, but thanks for laying out the rules of "good and caring" sex, i'll be sure to make note of it. your judgment never ceases to amaze me....really.
i think you're misinterpreting what i said. its not that i think it's a matter of how much you care about the person. its that i haven't gotten laid in a long time. and i prefer sleeping with people i care about. hopefully when i next have sex, it will be with someone i care about. it would be the first time i was with that person, and the first time i'd had sex in a long time. i would want to spend some time relaxing and talking with her in bed afterwards. its in no way judgment based on how much i think you love your man. it's my admission of having a skewed view of what sex should be like based on my own hopes and expectations of the next instance in which i will enjoy it.
jesus what are they teaching you in school these days? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_intercourse
Haha. Actually, they don't teach sexual intercourse in school anymore. They hope it will lower pregnancy. They stick to abstinence and abstinence only. No safe sex.
in which state do you live? because they certainly do cover at least the basics of sexual education in a lot of areas.
for public schools - in order to get federal funding for sex ed, a program must discuss abstinence and is often barred from discussing condoms or other contraceptive methods
I live in California. I haven't taken that class. Nor do i know anyone who has. So i wouldn't know if they taught it at my school.