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When I'm pissed.... I stutter.

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by TheChaosFactor, Mar 25, 2009.

  1. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    When I'm angry, I don't mince words. In fact, I throw them with all my might. Any impact is an impact when I'm angry.
     
  2. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    When I get angry I usually go off by myself and chill out. Then I can look at what pissed me off more objectively.
     
  3. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Thing is, I don't really get all that angry at people. I just inflict anger by saying a bunch of stuff so I don't bottle it in and let it consume me. I move on from anger very quickly.

    I don't yell at people, cry, or cuss them out. I just say whatever buttons I want to press out of anger and either stay and talk or walk away from the situation. When I am frustrated and/or annoyed I tend to be misunderstood oftentimes to be angry when I'm not.
     
  4. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    You sound angry. ;):p
     
  5. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Hmm... This used to be a somewhat of a complex for me as a kid, now that I think of it. People were always mistaking my objections and telling me that I just have a bad temper because I'm redheaded or something lame like that. I felt chastised for being aggressive when assertive was the recommended dose for good girls my age.
     
  6. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Nah, it's all piss and vinegar. I promise.
     
  7. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    See, I should really try this but I have a hard time shutting myself off to people and trying to be alone when I'm angry. I stick around to watch a fight.
     
  8. PurpByThePound

    PurpByThePound purpetrator

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    I don't get angry enough for a long enough period to know what I do...except punch holes in things.

    But that's very rare. I usually just get annoyed and answer people with really short answers and try not to talk.
     
  9. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    Girl, you rock!
     
  10. Hyde

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    When I get pissed I simply turn around and do my damndst to piss off the guy or girl who pissed me off. And if its a guy and that doesn't work, or if its a guy and words just aren't good enough, I deck 'em
     
  11. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    yeah, people do mistake the two quite a lot, disagreement and hate, assertiveness and aggression, bullshitting with cruelty. pfft. and being a natural redhead means they ALWAYS mistake the two.
     
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