When he cums in your ass...

I totally agree with this. I think the % of women who say they tried anal and don't like it probably was with a partner who did not know what the fuck he was doing. To be honest, guys don't know what the heezey they are doing even when it comes to vaginal.

97% of men believe they are good in bed, when the women say one in 20 is good in bed, from this data, apparently men have a jaded perspective on their sexual abilities. I will be the first to admit, that I am no Don Juan in bed, but that has started me on a quest to learn more about sex and get better at it. The first step to real growth is being honest with ones self, and most guys are too egotistical to accept something like that.

I think there would be A LOT more women interested in anal if guys had proper education on how to warm their girls up, getting them excited and most importantly relaxed. Guys treat the ass like the pussy, just like you said, they just put some spit on it shit force it in there. This will result in a high failure rate. I too was guilty of this in my first experience, but anal was not my idea the first time, it was hers, but I learned the error of my ways and have corrected this problem.

You just can't go ramming your cock up there like your are playing a game of red rover with her ass. Anal takes preparation and patience to be successful, but if you are successful, it will pay off 10 fold when you are balls deep in between those big cheeks filling that ass up with cum. And all your friends will be jealous that you can have anal with your girl and they can't.

Since then, all but 2 of my girl friends have enjoyed anal with me, even some who had previous bad experiences. The 2 experiences that flopped were not painful, the girls just were not into it but they were surprised it didn't hurt. It's our fault as men that women on average do not enjoy anal, it's also our fault that on average women don't enjoy regular sex with us either, the only difference is when vaginal sex sucks for the girl it's just disappointing, when anal sex sucks, IT HURTS LIKE A MOFO!

The 3rd girl I ever had anal with, was really hesitant to try it with me because of her previous bad experiences, key word being experiences as in plural. 2 guys had already tried to fuck her in the ass, and it was very painful. When she had anal with me, she could not believe that it didn't hurt, she was amazed! To be honest I couldn't get her to have anal orgasm, but she still found the experience very pleasurable to the point where she was asking for it more than I was.

The main problem is not woman's butts, they are suppose to be drum tight, that's what makes anal great. The problem are dumb egotistical males who don't know the first thing about anal. Not to mention there is a lot of cultural biased towards anal, that it's unholy and things like that, but the main thing is lack of proper technique.

The first step towards having anal is not coaxing your girlfriends into it like some sort of dumb ass jedi mind trick, the first step should be education. With the proper knowledge, from my experience anal will have an 80% success rate, as opposed to the 1 in 10 statistical average.

Here is a tip guys, make it more about her than it is about you. Don't ask her if you can fuck her in the ass, ask her if you can rim her ass. Tell her that you want to orally please her ass, and that you read online that oral stimulation of her ass can increase orgasms, that way it makes it look as though you did it for her instead of yourself. If you get her excited from from a good rim job, chances are she will be interested in knowing what other delights anal stimulation can bring, and then you're in like flin, literally. The tongue is the secret for getting your girls anal cherry.

Knowledge is power.

 

I agree with you on 100 % !!!!!!!

We stupid men are the problem !! Not the girls !!

With propper techniqe and education i reached exactly same rate you mentioned..more than 80% pleasurable anal sex for ladies )!!

The funny stuff:

By me there were a 10-15 % girls who could orgasm only with anal )))...

Maybe my cock was too small for vagina )) but for ass it was perfect for them )))

 

I have about a regular sized one, I wish I had a big one but I have a 6 shooter, which is average I guess for most males, I guess being black didn't give me anything extra, oh well, it seems to have worked out well thus far.

 

I ALWAYS miss the ass.

 

Well that's impressive that you kept trying it even though you had some negative experiences to start.

Then again I had a girlfriend who was a virgin when we started dating and she said our first few times of vaginal sex hurt quite a bit. It wasn't long before she would wake me up in the morning and say "sex please!" so I guess it wasn't painful forever ;-)

 

Mmmmmmmmm............................I love cum in my bum

 

yep! I kind of feel it more in my ass, I think.

 

Yum yum cum and shit a winning combination.

 

I like to take it in the ass and I LOVE when he cums in my ass...He has such a great penis I am in love with it...

 

I've only ever had one person climax inside me, and that was through Premature Ejaculation, which happened as soon as he made penetration, but I didn't feel anything of the orgasm whatsoever. If he hadn't told me he had cum, I wouldn't have known it.

 

I asked my wife and she says that she does feel it more in her asshole than her pussy. Probably because I get so worked up with anal that I explode.

 

my wife like it more in her pussy.

 

I only recently tried anal ( around 6 - 8 months ago ) i often fantasised about having anal with a woman, and my last girlfriend was the first girl who realy wanted to do it that ive been out with up to now.
The first time we tried it wasnt too good and i think it hurt her slightly, and i just pulled out.
She suggested it on and off for a couple of weeks after the first attempt, and we purchased some good lube, and tried again after having sex, i made sure she was relaxed and took things nice and slow, she moaned in pleasure and said everything was fine, i just eased my cock back and forth, and just unloaded smoothly inside her arse.
The whole thing only lasted about 5 mins, but it felt great, and very very naughty.
After that we did it on average a few times a month, and it was great everytime, more often than not she would ask for it, as she found it just as naughty as i did.

And yeh we allways did it without a condom, and i found that pulling my cock out a little while after cuming, and too pull out nice and slowely was the way, as not to just whip it out quickly.
Anal to me is so unbeleivably naughty .. and is a nice alternative, just take it slow and it will be a pleasureable experiance.

 

Ooooh, I like watching it too!

 

Aww, I'm lovededed.

 

I know it's kind of considered taboo to ride bareback, but every now and then I throw caution to to the wind and take a load (or two). Now I can't say if it feels better than taking it in my pussy, as I don't have one, but I think taking a load in my ass feels amazing. And what do I do with it? I let it takes it's own natural course lol

 

Honestly, my girl says she it doesn't feel better in her ass, she's indifferent to it.

 

I like it more when my boyfriend cums in my ass. I can feel him cumming in me better, plus he cums way more in my ass.

 

Yeh can deffo agree with that ^^^

When ever i have anal with my girl i cum realy intense, think because its realy naughty i get more wound up so proper blow my load in her ass, also never used condoms either and no mess " As of yet "

 

I don't get to enjoy my wife's butt nowhere near as much as she allowed when we first got married. But everytime she rewards me I cum deep in her ass, where she orders me to.