When a camgirl loves you..

Interesting, but it is a work of fiction, written by a guy and published in a book of short stories.
Some of it may be founded on fact, but it would have been precise'd to dramatize the affect on the readers.

 

Wow strong words, I dont comit to anyone because Im always working and never home..
You think I dont want a genuine woman?
Ive had genuine women but got dumped cause I wanted to persue my dream.
Relationships are not eveyones life goal..
Atleast I see those camgirls as human, not cheap whores like you say

 

I still believe it was based on facts.

 

Sometimes it just happens.
A guy who I worked wit was 'Jack the Lad', boasting everyday about his latest conquest in bed.
Then one day he met an everyday working girl who served him at the local dry cleaning shop. Everything changed overnight and within weeks, even his socks needed dry cleaning. They got married the following year and have 2 boys.
Despite the fact that this all happened before I even met Jane, they are still together.

 

The difference with that story is...they met in real life.

 

That is true.
I know of one case where a friend of ours met a girl from Thailand through a dating site and after about a year (when he retired), he moved out to Thailand to be with her, He returns to London from time to time and they still seem to be happy.
On the other hand, I know of numerous similar cases that have ended up in total disaster.
In one case a guy sold his London home and ended up homeless and with nothing. At the time, one of my staff was from Thailand and after meeting the girl, he warned the guy several times how things would transpire, but love (or should I say sexual attraction) is blind.

 

I worked out of Heathrow for 12 years and the one thing that does not quite make sense to me is that on a stopover, the hotels that the airlines use will be full of stewardesses anxious to get to know a pilot. And Romeo ends up looking for a cam-girl.

 

You said you can no longer watch her and don't like watching her strip for other men = jealousy.
And the end of you post in the OP you started to play the victim = their fault.

No point playing the victim, the bottom line is in the initial stages, you sought out to take advantage and exploit this girl.

Like I said, this is at the heart of what cam girls stay weary for and pretty much why I got out of it.

Certain guys just can't have a bit of harmless fun. They always get attached and make things awkward. It's actually not all that difficult to just leave it the way it's intended.

 

It wás all fun for me just untill the point where she went out of her way to declare her love to me and say she didnt want my tips anymore because it made hér feel akward..

I never asked for that, if things stayed loose that was fine by me. Like it has always been. But her stating those things changed things for me. Or does she tell every guy to stop tipping her?

Btw, exploit? Who told her to sit in front of a camera nude?
If you go buy bread do you exploit the baker?
Besides stop portraying these girls as victims of society, Ive talked to alot of them, they make 3k a month easelly, so who exploits who?

Stop portaying me as some sort of sexual predator..

 

I don't think anyone is saying you are a predator.
I think we are trying our best to support and warn you.

 

Maybe not every guy but I truly believe it’s just an act. A good act, but an act. Stop tipping her. Stop paying at all...and if she is still into you, then you have something to go on.

 

So every person in a couple who doesnt want his or her partner to have sex with other people is jealous and a bad person?
I didnt play victim, I said I can not live with that kind of situation...
Im not the bad guy here, and no neither is she.. its a situation I did not see coming and came here for advise, not judgement..

 

Smh.

A couple... You haven't even met her not officially started to date. Seriously.

Obsessions. Every Cam girls desire *rolls eyes*

 

I did stop tipping.
It just confused me, if its all about the money why would she say she didnt want me to give her money anymore.
All was good for her, we chatted but had a healthy distance. Money came her way and I had no problem with that.
It was my own choise..

 

Anyway, Im glad I posted my story here, it cleared up alot for me.
I was being stupid, naive and took things way to serious, lesson learned..
Thanks for all opinions..

 

Now you can find true love, in the real world.
Come back and tell us all that. x

Good Luck.

 

Thank you, kind regards

 

Everyone likes to feel special so I can see why you don’t want to believe that she says stuff like this (possibly) to everyone. Or many.

Forget cam girls, it’s not unusual for men and women in general, to juggle a few people at the same time, getting their egos stroked, but telling each one that they’re the special one. Happens all the time.

She could be different. Your situation could be different. But odds are, it’s not.

Just be careful.

 

I think what it hopefully shows you is that maybe there is a void in your life that you’re seeking to fill. You want love perhaps but are seeking out situations that won’t offer that. This really isn’t about cam girls or this cam girl, it is more about why you got swept away by a few kind words from someone you really don’t know. Maybe sort that out and you’ll find the answer. Good luck with it all though

 

Maybe I am being too abrasive. Sorry.