yeah, you DID get off easy. my sister didn't get off so easy, nor did my best friend in high school. both of them put themselves in that shitty situation. you can't control other people's behavior, but you CAN control your own.
yeah and thats why when i woke up i told him to fuck off and got out of there...there is no excuse what men do thou...and that was my point..how they think they can cop a feel when you walk past in a club, or they can say a horrible comment, or take advantage....and they CANT!
Its pretty annoying to read "there is no excuse for what MEN do." Its way to broad of a generalization. One thing to remember about some men is that they are majorly horny, and when you walk by wearing next to nothing, a drunk one might say something, or grab something...... I'm not saying that women shouldn't dress, or look however they want..just that I don't like hearing women complain about getting this unwanted attention, when they are at the same time enjoying the attention. Don't go to cheesy, meat market clubs, and then condemn all men because some asshole says or grabs something.
but you know it's even those small thigs that piss me off that we cant stop...like even thou if a guy grabs me most times i will hit him or smash him with my elbow or say something rude - the signal still doesnt filter with them...they think that is part of the joke...and the past few guys i have dated have let me down in the value of men because basically there was so much underlying superficiality...the last guy said you should bleach your hair or some crap..that made me realise he didnt know me...or hear me when i talked... even the ones you sometimes think like you for their personality change into sexist pigs...err im rambling and should stop..but FUCK guys like that make me so fucking angry!
i always wear more than next to nothing...yuck..skimpy clothes are gross...i would never dress like trailor trash. guys tell me all the time my skirts are too loong like "garbage bags" we arent condemming all men really...yes there are good guys out there - just so hard to find - and on top of that one you connect with... its just such a let down uno, to grow up and realise that being a women makes life harder for you thanif you had a set of balls and a phalice!
Being a guy isn't as glamourous as hollywood makes it seem. Maybe it is a little easier being a guy, but as terrible as it is, thats the way the ball bounces. People grow stronger through the toughest times so maybe women do have an advantage. I'm not trying to excuse mysoginy, but saying all guys are assholes is like saying all black people are thugs... Try not to let a few bad apples make everybody look worm infested. :H If it makes anyone feel better, I can beat up the next mysoginst I see... just leeme take down all my mirrors first.
No, of course not. I never said I did and you probably would have noticed that if you hadn't been so busy being so defensive. Exactly. My attitude? I have an attitude towards creepy men who think they have a right to start groping me... so what? Why is it that you guys have to get so defensive? For crying out loud, I'm not BLAMING any of you! I'm not blaming men in general. Gosh... I would have been just as upset if the person had been a woman and then I probably would have asked "What's wrong with women?". This post was about creepy INDIVIDUALS, not about blaming men for all the things that are wrong in the world. Guys sure are sensitive sometimes..
One time I was on a bus at rush hour time in the evening going to visit my boyfriend and the bus was packedwith people....this guy in business attire is accross from me looking into my eyes for quite a while just staring at me from right in front of me. I ws ignoring him..then he looked at me when we made eye contact and did this "come here" kinda thing with his finger. I shook my head. He said how old are you? I said ild enought to know better! he kept this stuff up and then as we neared a corner where there was bushes he stopped the bus there to get off and tried to get me off the buss. He was like get off the bus...and I said no then he said get off the bus and i said no...so nobody said anything and nobody got off the bus not even him and we kept going. Luckily the bus stop was right next to my bfs appartment and there happened to be 2 cops parked right there when I got off. I was relieved. I thought I was for sure going to be got by this freak.
You should come to Santa Cruz Kosmic. There aren't any men here (or if you are one you have to hide it as best you can), everyone here is some kind of androgenous hybid--It's OK to be a woman as long as you're willing to at least pretend you're a lesbian. It's Ok to be male as long as you make it obvious you wish you were a woman pretending to be a lesbian.
Why? Are you trying to hit on me?? You sickening piece of S**T, what's wrong with you, you pig!?! That's sexual harrasment and I shall crush your balls now! Ohh I'm sorry, was this not politically correct to make jokes about this matter? Hehehe. Umm.. now that's what I would call confusing. I don't wanna be in a place where there are no men around. I love men.