Whats wrong with me!!!! 28 and still a virgin!!!!

Vanilla Gorilla u r right when u talk about the male version of girl. actually autumnbreeze i dont have low self esteem. im just very shy. i am sure that being shy and having low self esteem is not the same. also this shyness tends to increase as more time is passing.

 

I didn't bother to read everyone else's comments on your thread but let's just say...

If your "friends" regard you as a loser simply because you're a 28 year old virgin, then those people are NOT your true friends.

Really, you lose your virginity when you do. For you to experience that, you first need the right partner. Don't settle for anything less. And certainly do NOT let others think you're a loser just because you haven't had sex yet. True friends like you not because you've had sex, they like you because they dig your personality.

Just a little comment from a fellow virgin.

 

Actually, I didn't say anything about self-esteem issues. I said self image was important because its usually what we rely on to attract others. Confidence is also something that helps, when we are about to take a risk, even a small risk like saying hello to a cute person we notice.

People often associate self esteem with these things but I don't. I think that a person can feel good about themselves but something isn't clicking for a certain aspect of their life. That's what I think is going on here.

I know it's not exactly easy for a shy person. I'm pretty shy myself, actually. (It's taken me 3 years of lurking here to actually post stuff. ) My biggest piece of advice from what I've read here (that you wrote) is just to try not to let 'being shy' stop you from being and doing what you want to.

Good luck.

xx

 

Yeah, sorry, I got side tracked by the 'self-esteem' thing. Meant more in the realm of self-confidence. The OP stated that women didn't like him. This sounds like a self-confidence situation.

 

My boyfriend was 26 when he lost his virginity to me. I have to say it is a huge responsibility and now I carry that burden. My advice find yourself an older women that will rock your world, teach you the ropes, give you the ride of your life, and don't fall in love. She will make you feel comfortable and confident. Then go back find yourself a virgin and deflower her the same.

 

Yeah I am going to have to agree with the other dood.

Get yourself a nice call girl man. It may not sound good, but not all hookers look like strung out bitches. You can pay 120 for a nice asian and she'll break your back! Lol you need to release brutha man.

 

Are u still single?

 

Hate to tell you, nanz, but I don't think he'll be able to answer your question now as it's been more than three years since he's made this post, and he basically stopped posting after making that post No.61 up there. It's always good to pay attention to WHEN a thread was made especially when you want to reply to the original post.

Welcome to Hip Forums.

 

You lack interesting hobbies and or a creative imagination plain and simple. Or you just flat out live under a rock 600 miles away from civilization. Seriously though read a book, get into philosophy, work out, do yoga, paint, smoke weed, develop some complexity and character brother. Being shy is a crap excuse to not get laid or to love a women or to find love from a woman. Go on a soul searching journey and stop wasting away these experiences you obviously desire. There is a fantastic and amazing world of infinite probability out there and you're just sitting here watching it all roll by. As the saying goes carpe diem or for the intellectually impaired You Only Live Once, stop being a back seat driver to life! Get out there and fucking live man LIVE!

 

I Refer You To Post No 68...



Cheers Glen.

 

He's dead. died a virgin. Poor bastard.