What's the right way to approach someone u like on a nude beach?

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if you get an unwanted erection when you approach a female person at a nude/nudist beach I'm sure she'll be understandable of your situation by ignoring your erection

 

How did you feel when you got the erection and what did the women react when talking to you?

When I first started at the nude beach a curious group were looking at me. One women decided to talk to me saying hello. While I was laying on my back she asked questions about me my background etc.. All at the same time looking over my tanned entire body. Luckily i didn't get errect so it wasn't anything out of the ordinary.
If you get into conversations with women who compliment you it is not that difficult to get aroused. I had a women who asked to photograph me. She felt akward but allowed her to do so. I tried not getting into any deep conversation with her or her friend. I was feeling aroused at the time of her asking me and wanting her to finish quickly before I would get fully erect. Only thing I was thinking during her picture was not to get hard. After she left I started immediately thinking why not get a photo together with her nude cute friend. Just thinking that I began to get hard luckily I didn't ask them knowing what would of been.
When you get compliments from women and they glance down looking at your wang difficult not to get turned on.
Seen two men side by side talking to a older women both well endowed. The conversation was mostly the men talking to each other while the women seeing they were looking at each other she began to look down at there penis them being unaware. I found that a older regular nude woman comparing the two mens penises a bit of a turn on.

Only advice not to get errect when talking to an attractive women is never try to have pictures taken with you holding on hip to hip. Don't initiate conversation if she complements you to much. Think that she finds you repulsive and hopefully you won't get a hardon.
Try to keep eye on your environment so nobody will surprise you when you look at them. Happened to me once when I was busy eating some fruit while standing. As I finished I looked up and found 6 woman lined up playing at the shoreline looking at me. As my shock of them initially wore off my foreskin began to retract as though i began to get hard. They all began to laugh at me but i began to walk away trying to act calm and no big deal. Luckily I didn't get hard but see how embarrassing it can be for you.

 

I'm on Holiday now and for the forst time in my life I'm at a Nudist beach, So I can't say the correct way to approach somone you like but after yesterday I can certainly tell you the wrong way.

Yesterday I was Lying on the beach waiting for my friend to get back and rub the sun block onto my back, I had just called out for her, She was getting a Drink, when a Random guy came up to me and said, without any introduction or pre-amble, I'll get that for you love, and then before I could say or do anything, he started rubbing the lotion onto my back and he quickly descended to my arse, which he started to, for lack of a better word, grope. So I can say with certainty, DON'T DO THAT, IT WILL WIN YOU NO POINTS OR FAVOURS!!!!!! Just approach her and do the same stuff you would do if you saw her on a bus or in the pub, basically any place you would try chatting to her that you weren't both naked. as for the Erection Thing, don't worry about it, over the last few days I have chatted to loads of guys with erections and it has never been a problem, nor a turn off or on, It's just unfortunate for guys that it is so blatantly obvious when they are aroused for whatever reason, basically, if you are chatting to a girl and you get an erection don't make a big thing about it, and carry on as normal, sorry for the choice of words there

 

There is a nudist beach just over the bay from the one I live by, a lot of old people spend their time there. I think they just approach each other and start a normal everyday conversation.
If I liked someone at a nudist beach I’d approach them and ask to sit with him/her and refrain from throwing myself on top of them :L but yeah, I’d just be confident and approach them say hi and introduce yourself and ask to sit with them, going swimming together is always good too, if she doesn’t like the water then just get to know her through conversation and keep your eyes above her shoulders

And in response to you getting an erection if it’s really bothering you then just throw some clothing or a towel over it and if she’s understanding then I’m sure she’ll accept the fact that you’re a guy and like most guys you would tend to go weak at the sight of a pair of boobs and a beaver on top of that if all else fails apologise and say I’m not used to nude women walking around me.

 

Make sure she is absolutely alone and her boyfriend/husband hasn't gone walking along the beach and left her there!!

Otherwise, eye contact and an engaging personality are priorities one and two. Also take your sunnies off, if you wear them.

Approaching a solo woman with a hard-on is begging for trouble. OK with friends you are nude with, but not a total stranger.

My opening line would be, "it's a beauituful beach, isn't it?", to which the most recent woman I approached propped herself up and replied, "It really is that good! Do you live around here?" The conversation rambled on and on over many subjects. She (a primary teacher) was here on school holidays from some distance away in my State. On a nude beach ask if you can sit down to talk — after you've broken the ice, but don't advance yourself to the point of very suddenly becoming "persona non grata" — to her and those around. Great and enduring friendships can be made — and made to last — by keeping sexual overtures out and the common interest factor in.

 

If you are still at the stage where you are worried that you might look or sound like a pervert, then you need to work on your conversation skills and gain some confidence first in a more natural setting. By that I mean, don't walk up to a woman by herself and try to chat her up. Use a more natural approach, join a volleyball game, sit with other nudists and let one of them introduce you to his/her attractive nudist daughter or granddaughter.

You won't be new at this forever, give it time!

 

Understand the overwhelming majority of women go to nude beaches to relax, and in most cases don't want to deal with guys at all. They just want their alone, relaxation time.

If a woman happens to put her blanket or towel down next to yours, just say hi. But I wouldn't recommend going out of your way to approach someone.

Years of nude beaches and a lifetime nudist.

 

I hooked up with a women at the bude beach. To be honest it was just kike a normal situation and dont really thibk about nudity. She was alone with her child a few yards from me and i felt that i needed to stretch my legs and walked her direction and asked kindly if she would mind watching my stuff while i went for walk. She said of course and asked where my accent was from and then from there we chatted for ages. She said she enjoyed talking to me and when i return why dont i move my stuff and join her. So i did and got on so well. Not once did i get a boner. Not because i wasnt attracted to her it was just that i was enjoying chatting to her and had eye to eye. After that we were together 3 years. What turns me on is touch and alone in bed. I felt reapectful and forget your nude. So i guess my situation was no different to chatting up a girl anywhere else. We were nudists so were comfortable and respectful. I find nudists are lovley people. Perverts tend to be very obvuous and look awkward. So if you want to perv then u will be disappointed. If you are genuinely there to relax and enjoy nudist beach then you will be fine. If an erection happens then its fine. Just dont start being rude or delibratly flaunting it.

 

It was a fairly predictable and harmless jest

 

Not an easy one as especially if you are a man it may be seen in a threatening or otherwise unwanted way.

 

Discreetly Pinch your balls real hard!

 

Most people don't want to be misunderstood

Approach carefully on all fours with a copy of "Catcher in the Rye" duct-taped to your back

 

Nothing makes one's eyes glaze over as quickly as a spirited discussion of A la Recherche des Temps Perdu and the same holds true for dicks. They will uniformly drain of blood and appear white and hopeless in any such discussion. If you are English and hate the French then do the same thing, mutatis utandis, with 'On Once more Looking into Chapman's Homer'.

 

Wang is a computer company - whang is a big dick trying not to get hard when being photographed by a lady. Yes, it's easy to confuse the two since whangs are 'programmed' to get hard in the presence of attractive people